But damn it! Do you want to date ME or Grimm ??? How does the rest of the group know who to flirt with?? Surely one is more favored? I don't care what your preference is-one has to be! In my case I like women,I like men but only want to sleep with MEN! How do you find your lifes partner if you can't narrow it down? I suppose this is what bothers me: say you are gay. say you are in a long committed relationship. Do you un the high risk of suddenly having to say"Sorry-I'm straight" or vice versa? I am trying to understand this,really.
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Its hard to explain. I could have a relationship with a woman, or i could have one with a man. If i married a woman i'd still sleep with men, and if i married a man i'd still sleep with women- OR maybe i'd go completely straight, or completely gay. This is why many bisexuals AREN'T married
It's perfectly possible to have a happy, fulfilled LTR with someone of either gender provided your emotional attachment to them remains deep and sincere. That's what carries the relationship, not the sex. You don't have to pick a 'side' because it depends entirely on the person, not their gender. You young'uns will learn this one day.
Why do people say "Grow some balls"? Balls are weak and sensitive! If you really wanna get tough, grow a vagina! Those things take a pounding! -Betty White
Thats what i mean A*O. I am not ruling out relationships with females or males, thats all. And sex is a small part of it, theres plenty of relationships where the couple rarely has sex anyway.
Thanks A*O and SY&P, you put it very well. I usually try and stay out of this type of discussion because it seems like a lot of people just can't get around this idea that you have to be "straight" or "gay" and that there's nothing else.
Anyway, I've known I'm attracted to both men and women for a very long time and could have ended up in a relationship with either a man or a woman. It just happened that the person I fell in love with and wanted to spend my life with is a man. I'm now married to him and I know that to the outside world I appear "straight". But being married to a man doesn't change the fact that I'm attracted to women, too. I have no intention of ever acting on it because I feel very strongly about being monogamous in marriage (open marriage, etc is fine for others but not for me). It's no different than a straight person in a monogamous relationship.
Why can some not understand this? I agree with SYP.
This is what happens when there are labels. People get confused. A bisexual is on a basic level attracted to both sexes. Do some have preferences? Yes. Do some only sleep with one gender? Yes. Can you choose not to be bi? Umm, that I have to say no. You can choose to hide it or deny it, but the indications are there.
So did any read about her coming out? I haven't heard a word.
I find it weird but somehwat amusing how people today confuse a female having a 'girl crush' on another female with being gay.
But even if they truly are romantically involved, I personally found it 'gayer' when she was with Dave Navarro!
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Bisexuals dont have to choose; they like both, end of story. Some days i feel like peaches, the next day, its banana's. Thats how I'd explain it. Thats what I've learned about myself.
This is how I explain it politlely. If I like an individual, gender does not stop me.
Im having a happy dance in my pants just thinking about Carmens liddle liasons.........hmmmohhhhyeeeeahhhhhh
Is that wrong?
^ No, I don't think so, but I have a question??
If being gay is decided by your dna (which I don't believe) instead of your social surrounding, does this mean that a bi-sexual person's dna is all messed up..(not that I think this, just asking)? I mean people try to say your sexual orientation is made up by dna so what does that say when you are straight and gay at the same time?
Btw, I am married but I like women to STY. My problem with the whole gay thing is the way some gay guys act over the top, all girly and just plain annoying (the annoying having nothing to do with their makeup or being gay in general)......just a man acting girly is annoying to me.
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