My ex-kitty

**cherrypye** · January 27th, 2008, 04:33 PM

I was just posting in the "who gets the pet in a split" thread, and it got my mind thinking about my little girl.

My ex and I got her during our marriage, and when we split she stayed with him. (She is a total daddy's girl, and their bond was amazing...I couldn't take her away from him!) Anyway, I still have a key to our home and will sometime drop by to give her a snack and a snuggle. I miss her quite a bit.

Here are some pics of my baby Namira:

Sleeping with Daddy:

**Icepik** · January 27th, 2008, 04:36 PM

Awww...she's absolutely beautiful!

**Trixie** · January 27th, 2008, 04:40 PM

Awww..cute kitty. Sorry you don't have custody but at least you still get visitation!

**HelpMeRhonda** · January 27th, 2008, 04:42 PM

Aww cute kee kat.
Sorry you miss her.
You could get your own snuggly kitty.

**LaFolie** · January 27th, 2008, 05:02 PM

Awwwwwwwww... the cutie little thing!!!

**McJag** · January 27th, 2008, 05:31 PM

I admire you for putting her first! Good for you, very unselfish.

**cherrypye** · January 27th, 2008, 05:56 PM

Originally Posted by McJag

I admire you for putting her first! Good for you, very unselfish.

I hate that about me...but now I get to be the divorced parent that gets to spoil her with no discipline.

It has its perks, I suppose! I do miss her, but my lifestyle isn't conducive to another kitty right now. Plus, I could never replace this little girl.

I also have an adoptive kitty that belongs to my roomie, so I guess this will have to work. She tends to be a little trouble-maker though!

**MissDecember** · January 27th, 2008, 06:30 PM

Awww. She has a lot of charisma for such a small cat. How old is she? Looks quite young, maybe three months...? So cute!

**cherrypye** · January 27th, 2008, 06:53 PM

The younger pics are of her at 2-3 months.

**t13nif** · January 27th, 2008, 07:11 PM

She's adorable and that's amazing you put her first. My best friend's partner was spiteful and took 2 out of their 3 cats and refused to let her see them. One of the kitties was extra-special because i had given him to her when he was just a baby. After several years of instability and who knows what kind of environment, her ex finally relinquished Zach to my best friend. He was pretty traumatized and had a really hard time adjusting to the new kitty siblings he had in his new home.
Thankfully all is well now and he is a big, beautiful healthy pure white cat with one blue and one green eye

. It's devastating though--they are our children.

**drama_queen** · January 28th, 2008, 08:25 AM

Thats a beautiful cat.

**Quazar** · January 28th, 2008, 09:29 AM

She is adorable - what a sweet face! I know it must be difficult to let her go but at least you still get to see her. If my husband and I split - I hope I could be this mature about our cats. One of my favorite cats favors him.

**Sweetie** · January 28th, 2008, 09:41 AM

That is one of the prettiest cats I have ever seen.

**sharon_b** · January 28th, 2008, 10:11 AM

seriously one of the cutest little kitty's i have ever seen

**Butterfly** · January 28th, 2008, 10:24 AM

A Calico! My first kitty was one, she followed us home on 4th of July when I think I was about 8 and had her until I was about 22. I miss her. I'm glad you're able to visit her.