Soccer mothers/ helicopter parents rant

**twitchy2.0** · June 23rd, 2011, 03:30 PM

how often was the tinfoil thong washed? *sideways glance at potatoes*

**VenusInFauxFurs** · June 23rd, 2011, 03:31 PM

Never been washed. Am I doing it wrong?

**SHELLEE** · June 23rd, 2011, 03:32 PM

Originally Posted by shedevilang

or as her friends call her hotmommy

Lol, I'd forgotten about that!

**baked_tater** · June 23rd, 2011, 05:15 PM

Originally Posted by Lobelia

Venus said that parenting wasn't hard, and you followed her saying that it is hard if you give a shit. Which implies that Venus doesn't care about her kid.

Now this is hogwash, just because someone posts something (for example, this case, Alice's post), does not mean it was directed to a particular member of the board! It implies nothing, it simply means the offended poster must have seen a truth in the post or said offended poster would not have went on a nasty board wide I don't give a fuck (but I really give a million fucks) posting spree against the supposed offensive poster.

I think it is funny to hear people say parenting is not that hard. Count your blessings if that's the case, other parents may have a different opinion.

Viva Free Speech and Viva differing opinions, yall.

And as far as years of putting up with someone else supposed negative posts, I see it as a self control issue. Who says the offensive posts need to continue to be read? The bullshit goes both ways. And it get old having thread after thread basically ruined, by a group of posters who have to come lording into the thread to make certain they get their digs in on said poster (whomever it happens to be that way) for daring to post something they deem passive aggressive or victim mentality or what have you.

Seriously, if someone bothers you so much, I heartily agree ignore their fucking ass. If the problem is so bad you have to make snide comments about the poster's comments from other threads or years old threads, the problem lies with you not the other poster.

**twitchy2.0** · June 23rd, 2011, 05:20 PM

Originally Posted by baked_tater

It implies nothing, it simply means the offended poster must have seen a truth in the post

Which is it then? Nothing or truth?

and saying it's "truth" is awfully presumptuous.

Originally Posted by baked_tater

If the problem is so bad you have to make snide comments about the poster's comments from other threads or years old threads, the problem lies with you not the other poster.

and yet if someone speaks up against the snide comments they must have "seen a truth in the post"? Maybe people are just sick of it. Maybe there is no truth in that shit.

**effie2** · June 23rd, 2011, 05:29 PM

Let me get that clear..since i took part of said debate.
You mean to say that I have a problem and not Alice?Do you think after almost 5000 posts that we(I) get a kick out of running after long time posters just because the opinions differ?
Long time posters kill each other in one thread and are still friends.I ve posted lots of shit over time,i ve whined often even bothered people sometimes,i know.
But i never felt victimazed or insulted.
If so i would take my beach toys and play at the next beach.

**VenusInFauxFurs** · June 23rd, 2011, 05:36 PM

Oh woops. I am a terribad mommy and you're right. Alice's words stung.

**baked_tater** · June 23rd, 2011, 05:38 PM

I meant to say what I said, nothing more and nothing less. I have no control over what others try to read into what I post.

But Venus, if you know you are not a bad mom (and I did not read those words from anyone here, if someone posted youre a bad mom, I missed that post and would like to see it) how in the world can someone online who is only a part of your life here online in a marginal way get under your skin so badly? I have rolled my eyes at some of the things directed my way by people who assume from one or two posts on a thread they can make huge ass assumptions about my entire life, here and elsewhere. In the big scheme of things, I know my life, I know who I am, no one here really knows if anything anyone posts is true or not. I saw one poster here (forgot who) make some kind of snide statements about another poster making up their life facts, or something, and I thought, and why are your life facts that get vomited all over the board golden nuggets of truth and not the poster being dissed? But instead of quoting the hypocrite and having to lug my big netballs into the thread and call em out on it, I rolled my eyes and went on.

I am a firm believer in freedom of speech though so I really don't mind if no one wants to listen to my opinion or what have you, that's fine too. I come here firstly and foremostly for the celebrity gossip.

**VenusInFauxFurs** · June 23rd, 2011, 05:38 PM

Don't you also have a daily whinefesto to go compose?

**effie2** · June 23rd, 2011, 05:41 PM

Surely you have control over what you post,that is why i asked you to make it clear.

**january** · June 23rd, 2011, 05:41 PM

^^^ I agree. Hell, Alice even addressed me as a "useless bitch" in her signature until Lobes called her on it, but I never once said (or felt) victimized. If anything, it was a tad funny (and ironic coming from that particular poster). I can pull up my big girl pants and deal with it, as can most of the posters here.

Alice has a habit of provoking, provoking, provoking, and when people take the bait, making herself into the victim. Case in point: "I beat a kitten, I hope my kitten forgets the beating." And then, when called out, in another thread: "Who really believes I would beat a kitten?" or her passive-aggressive postings about how nobody here cares about children because we give birth to them out of wedlock, or we support single mothers. lol, wut? She says terrible things that are horribly offensive and never recants, because in her mind everyone else is the problem and not she. She plays the victim card constantly, it's exhausting. And lately, all it is is passive-aggressive post after passive-aggressive post. This isn't out of the blue, she has been baiting non-stop. I think people give her a pass when she would be killed on this forum if she was a newbie, but if people disagree with me on that point, so be it. I'm not going to cry if people disagree with me, it's not my deal.

She says everyone around her is toxic and paints herself as a victim. Now, I ask you, seeing her behavior here, who in the hell would believe what she says about her real life, that everyone uses her and she's just surrounded by SO many bad people?

Sluce is right - I also used to be an ardent supporter of hers, even when I second-guessed if she was a troll or not. I thought she was harmless, even if she was provocative. But I called her on her shit, she immediately pointed fingers, called me names, posted insane shit all over the board, and put me on ignore. She got off on it. She really does crave any attention, even negative. Watch her. She likes to provoke, play the victim, then post a bunch of asinine posts, and when that gets her no attention, she starts the cycle all over again. So while I would hope threads like these would teach her a lesson in introspection and how to get along with others, it won't. All it will make her do is put more people on ignore and spout so more of her victimization stuff. I find it all quite sad, honestly.

And that's my last two cents on the subject, because honestly, I'm sick and tired of her shit and I hate, hate, hate drama. I'm not about to get into more on the internetz when I avoid it at any cost in my real life.

**effie2** · June 23rd, 2011, 05:42 PM

Originally Posted by VenusInFauxFurs

Don't you also have a daily whinefesto to go compose?

Screw you,i choked!

**VenusInFauxFurs** · June 23rd, 2011, 05:45 PM

Just to clarify, I didn't see any truth in the post. A) because it's simply not true B) the source is a wind-up merchant nutter and C) dicks.

That is all.