Well. Ok. I lack parenting skills too because I have spanked my toddler NUMEROUS times, at least 20.
Do I do it hard? No.
Honestly, I feel like its the only way I can get her attention. Am I a bad parent then?? Perhaps. But until you've DEALT WITH IT, you have no idea. These kids can wear you down in seconds......seconds I tell you.
I hear you loud & clear, sister.
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No parking baby. No parking on the dance floor.