I do not feel sorry for her. She is eating THIRTEEN THOUSAND CALORIES A DAY!
Did I expect anyone to 'feel sorry' for me when I would eat an entire box of Captain Crunch cereal, along with a full box of sugar, and an entire half gallon of milk, at one sitting, and then puke it all back up?(anorexia with bulemic tendiencies)? NO! I was disgusted with myself, and I would not expect sympathy, but a firm "you need help you are SOO fucked up" would have been appropriate.
Sympathy is NOT going to help this girl. A good reality check and some understanding but firm intervention will-along with a reality check on her part re: she DOES have choices, can make decisions, can be responsible for actions, and needs to get tough..with herself! This is a matter of life and death-this girl is GOING TO DIE because of this. Time to get tough and take action for all involved.