Who feels sorry for Britney Spears?

[DitaPage*]

I feel sorry for me; I can't believe I used to idolise her.

[Icepik]

Originally Posted by StayYoung&Pretty

I feel sorry for me; I can't believe I used to idolise her.

Poor thing

[UndercoverGator]

Originally Posted by LynnieD

I'm a combo of all three, but voted for Hell to the no.

She had a shitty upbringing, no rolemodels, has a serious lack of education and any worldly sense. BUT has made an awful lot of money on bascially no talent and IS an adult now, and should be able to get it together--I mean, 24 is young yes, but she's a parent, she needs to take more responsibility for herself, her child, her future, her finances, etc. OR, she will be forced to do so, either because she is bankrupt or whatever.


I don't see a lost cause, but I don't see her turning it around anytime soon either....

What she said. I think the thing I dislike the most about her is when she screws up instead of admitting she's done the wrong thing and taking steps to correct it and moving on she denies it. Remember when she claimed that the evil tabloid photogs were chasing her when she was caught driving with the lil' Cheetoette on her lap and later had to retract that when photographs clearly showed her smiling and relaxed while driving with baby on lap? She refuses to accept any responsibility and started majorly acting like the rules of polite society didn't apply to her when she poached KFed from his woman.

[AliceInWonderland]

What she said. I think the thing I dislike the most about her is when she screws up instead of admitting she's done the wrong thing and taking steps to correct it and moving on she denies it.

omg that is such a good point! that is how our society is now; no one takes responsibility or accountablility for their actions and bad decisions! Its always someone else's fault or their bad childhood wah wah wah bla bla bla; good point Gator!

[GoldDust77]

Originally Posted by MrsMarsters

from the blank expressions..I can see the falls have hurt him.

I totally agree. No effing way do i feel sorry for that irresponsible, dumb, spoiled, foolish, attention-seeking, media-courting (She happily uses the media for HER OWN ADVANTAGE, when SHE will BENEFIT from it...But when the media catches her doing something wrong, something that is DISADVANTAGEOUS to her, something that she will NOT BENEFIT FROM, suddenly she HATES the *evil media*.--PUH-LEASE, Britney. Quite a double standard there.), immature woman. SHE HERSELF has made these mistakes. No one "did this to her"; no one "caused these mistakes". Britney did. And the welfare of a child was/is endangered by her stupidity & thoughtless actions. It would be one thing if she herself was just acting a fool & not affecting anybody else; just making HERSELF look stupid (like in the old days!--pre-SPF). But her bad behavior is affecting another person's life--a helpless person who depends on HER for his every need in life. And, i believe, Sean is not properly getting that from her. I feel sorry for Sean. I don't feel the least bit sorry for Britney.

Maybe it's because i have worked for Child Protective Services in the past, but, i really personally think this is a serious matter. Babies suffering ANY kind of harm bothers me a great deal. When i post posts about Britney such as this one, i am NOT picking on Britney for the fun of it.--I am expressing my worries & genuine concern for this poor baby in her inefficient care.

As i've said in other threads, and as Mrs.Marsters pointed out, I really, honestly think that Sean Preston did suffer some sort of debilitating brain injury--most likely from when he FELL ONTO A HARD FLOOR, WHACKING HIS HEAD HARD ENOUGH TO FRACTURE HIS SKULL!!!! That is EXTREMELY SERIOUS. Now, yes, i know that this happens very often--Perfectly good mothers drop their babies by accident. But the MAJOR, INEXCUSEABLE difference here is, SHE WAITED 6 (SIX) DAYS TO BRING THE BABY TO THE HOSPITAL AFTER HE FELL TO THE FLOOR AND WHACKED HIS HEAD ON A HARD SURFACE WITH QUITE AN IMPACT!!!! She should have rushed him IMMEDIATELY to the hospital!! THAT is unforgiveable, in my opinion.

And that is JUST ONE TINY thing about Britney that angers me, disgusts me, causes me to have no respect for her, and CERTAINLY causes me to NOT FEEL SORRY for this foolish, immature person who is totally unfit to be a mother but yet has not accepted responsibility for her own mistakes & tried to improve her skills & make better choices.--She has instead tried to blame OTHERS for ALL of these mishaps that we've read about that were HER OWN fault. Blame the "high-chair manufacturer" (what a crock of sh*t!!--I smell a rat with that stupid excuse) for SPF's fall & resulting skull fracture; blame The Papparazzi for causing her to not strap her baby into his carseat & instead drive on a busy highway with him sitting in her lap his wobbly head mere inches from the steering wheel in which a tiny accident could easily have killed him; and, again blame The Papparazzi when she tripped & almost fell & almost dropped her baby while wearing wobbly 4" platform shoes with pants so long they wrapped right underneath the soles of the shoes & holding her heavy fat son in just one arm without even the other arm free to keep a firm grip on him or even able to use that other arm in the case of some sort of emergency--because that other hand was clutching a DRINKING GLASS!!! GIVE ME A BREAK.

Since all of these things involve an innocent baby's LIFE, i feel NO sorryness for her. And again, i DO think that SPF has been negatively, tragically affected by that fall & SKULL FRACTURE (and who-knows-what-else!). From all of the many pictures of Sean i have seen, his face/eyes are always totally blank, just staring off into space--totally empty & vacant, without any curiosity, personality, smiling, crying, looking around, or responding/interacting with people around him. His face is a blank slate. Compare him to other babies his age that you guys know of--or even to babies significantly YOUNGER than him. SOMETHING, i personally think, is VERY WRONG with that baby, and if my suspicions are even slightly correct, then, (it goes without saying) that is a CRYING SHAME. And, tragically, i think his unintelligent, common-sense-lacking, irresponsible mother who has way more than enough money to rectify her situation in any way that she could ever want to but yet has thus far chose NOT to, may be to blame. And that, in my book, is unforgiveable and deserves no pity.

[Beeyotch]

Originally Posted by HWBL

I think she's a perfect example of how shallow society has become. Too rich, too soon in life for making an obscenely rewarded living off a mediocre talent. No content, no social interests or development. Monkey does as monkey sees attitude (Madonna Kabbala? Then me too, Madonna obscene stage act? Then me too). No originality. Money hungry background (you think her stage mom sent her kid to countless talentshows JUST because she believed in her kid's gift? Nope, she hoped that someday they'd have a fortune. Well, they do now, congratulations on your wealthy, meaningless, life).
Do I feel sorry for her? No. If she had an ounce of intellect or integrity, she might choose to nurture her mind instead of going the easy way of spending, spending, spending on shallow stuff. Shopping is fun, yeah, but if you have any sense, there comes a time when it's enough. She's an empty shell with no everyday human skills that are noticable. Trouble is> unfortunately most of showbiz consists of these types these days.

Hallelujah and Amen! Couldn't have said it better. This should be an ad in the NY and LA Times, paid for by SaveSPF.org. Then maybe Britney could buy a clue and not kid herself about the reality of things.

[leapinglilies]

Originally Posted by GoldDust77

I totally agree. No effing way do i feel sorry for that irresponsible, dumb, spoiled, foolish, attention-seeking, media-courting (She happily uses the media for HER OWN ADVANTAGE, when SHE will BENEFIT from it...But when the media catches her doing something wrong, something that is DISADVANTAGEOUS to her, something that she will NOT BENEFIT FROM, suddenly she HATES the *evil media*.--PUH-LEASE, Britney. Quite a double standard there.), immature woman. SHE HERSELF has made these mistakes. No one "did this to her"; no one "caused these mistakes". Britney did. And the welfare of a child was/is endangered by her stupidity & thoughtless actions. It would be one thing if she herself was just acting a fool & not affecting anybody else; just making HERSELF look stupid (like in the old days!--pre-SPF). But her bad behavior is affecting another person's life--a helpless person who depends on HER for his every need in life. And, i believe, Sean is not properly getting that from her. I feel sorry for Sean. I don't feel the least bit sorry for Britney.

Maybe it's because i have worked for Child Protective Services in the past, but, i really personally think this is a serious matter. Babies suffering ANY kind of harm bothers me a great deal. When i post posts about Britney such as this one, i am NOT picking on Britney for the fun of it.--I am expressing my worries & genuine concern for this poor baby in her inefficient care.

As i've said in other threads, and as Mrs.Marsters pointed out, I really, honestly think that Sean Preston did suffer some sort of debilitating brain injury--most likely from when he FELL ONTO A HARD FLOOR, WHACKING HIS HEAD HARD ENOUGH TO FRACTURE HIS SKULL!!!! That is EXTREMELY SERIOUS. Now, yes, i know that this happens very often--Perfectly good mothers drop their babies by accident. But the MAJOR, INEXCUSEABLE difference here is, SHE WAITED 6 (SIX) DAYS TO BRING THE BABY TO THE HOSPITAL AFTER HE FELL TO THE FLOOR AND WHACKED HIS HEAD ON A HARD SURFACE WITH QUITE AN IMPACT!!!! She should have rushed him IMMEDIATELY to the hospital!! THAT is unforgiveable, in my opinion.

And that is JUST ONE TINY thing about Britney that angers me, disgusts me, causes me to have no respect for her, and CERTAINLY causes me to NOT FEEL SORRY for this foolish, immature person who is totally unfit to be a mother but yet has not accepted responsibility for her own mistakes & tried to improve her skills & make better choices.--She has instead tried to blame OTHERS for ALL of these mishaps that we've read about that were HER OWN fault. Blame the "high-chair manufacturer" (what a crock of sh*t!!--I smell a rat with that stupid excuse) for SPF's fall & resulting skull fracture; blame The Papparazzi for causing her to not strap her baby into his carseat & instead drive on a busy highway with him sitting in her lap his wobbly head mere inches from the steering wheel in which a tiny accident could easily have killed him; and, again blame The Papparazzi when she tripped & almost fell & almost dropped her baby while wearing wobbly 4" platform shoes with pants so long they wrapped right underneath the soles of the shoes & holding her heavy fat son in just one arm without even the other arm free to keep a firm grip on him or even able to use that other arm in the case of some sort of emergency--because that other hand was clutching a DRINKING GLASS!!! GIVE ME A BREAK.

Since all of these things involve an innocent baby's LIFE, i feel NO sorryness for her. And again, i DO think that SPF has been negatively, tragically affected by that fall & SKULL FRACTURE (and who-knows-what-else!). From all of the many pictures of Sean i have seen, his face/eyes are always totally blank, just staring off into space--totally empty & vacant, without any curiosity, personality, smiling, crying, looking around, or responding/interacting with people around him. His face is a blank slate. Compare him to other babies his age that you guys know of--or even to babies significantly YOUNGER than him. SOMETHING, i personally think, is VERY WRONG with that baby, and if my suspicions are even slightly correct, then, (it goes without saying) that is a CRYING SHAME. And, tragically, i think his unintelligent, common-sense-lacking, irresponsible mother who has way more than enough money to rectify her situation in any way that she could ever want to but yet has thus far chose NOT to, may be to blame. And that, in my book, is unforgiveable and deserves no pity.

i didn't read this all and i don't really expect anyone to read it again, but i couldn't believe its tone. the single most important thing for a child is a mother that loves it, and brittany obviously loves sean. you always see him with her, not a nanny. if you really worked for cps i feel so sorry for those kids. i thought cps was supposed to help familys stay together! i'm so glad paparazzi wasn't around when i forgot to completely belt her in her carseat before we left the grocery store for home... i'll never forgive myself for that, but new moms make mistakes. period.

[Grimmlok]

Feeling sorry for her is like feeling bad for laughing at the special olympics.

[HWBL]

Originally Posted by Beeyotch

Hallelujah and Amen! Couldn't have said it better. This should be an ad in the NY and LA Times, paid for by SaveSPF.org. Then maybe Britney could buy a clue and not kid herself about the reality of things.

You're welcome I mean, what a contrast to Jodie Foster. She was in commercials and Disney movies since she was about 6 or so. Yet, her intellect made her realize there was more to life than just appearing in front of a camera so she stepped out, educated herself, and then returned on her own terms. Sure, Foster was never a hype like Shitney, but still was in the same unnatural position of being exposed to showbiz from a very early age on. Still she managed to take a step back and not believe in herself too much. Even without the idiot Hinkley incident, I think Foster would have been able to extract herself from showbiz to develop herself.
Spears is like the missing link> no sense of the bigger picture, totally locked in the here and now. I think her biggest goal in life probably was having a number one record and being on the cover of all magazines. Well, Bravo, now you can die

[vatten]

i dont feel sorry for britney, but sorry for her children

sorry, dont hit me...
my thought(s)

[DeChayz]

Originally Posted by leapinglilies

i didn't read this all and i don't really expect anyone to read it again, but i couldn't believe its tone. the single most important thing for a child is a mother that loves it, and brittany obviously loves sean. you always see him with her, not a nanny. if you really worked for cps i feel so sorry for those kids. i thought cps was supposed to help familys stay together! i'm so glad paparazzi wasn't around when i forgot to completely belt her in her carseat before we left the grocery store for home... i'll never forgive myself for that, but new moms make mistakes. period.

Well I did read it again. And GoldDust has great points. The most important thing is not that a mother cares about her child, it's that she knows how to care for her child. I'm sorry, you can have all the good "motherly" intentions in the world, but you keep dropping that kid on its head, there's a problem.

[ultrafabviolet]

The little people. The little people feel sorry for Britney.



Vi

[Aella]

Hell no, not feeling the slightest bit sorry for her.

That talentless, giggling moron has annoyed me ever since the start of her carreer. The fact she managed to fuck her life up so royally despite all the advantages her 'success' gave her confirmed for me that while money can buy a lot of things, it can't buy brains or class.

[leapinglilies]

what's this 'keeps dropping him' stuff? i thought it was 'he wiggled out of a high chair' once. (and holding him on her lap was a huge no-no, but when she stumbled a little while holding him everything was ok...)

[UndercoverGator]

Originally Posted by leapinglilies

i didn't read this all and i don't really expect anyone to read it again, but i couldn't believe its tone. the single most important thing for a child is a mother that loves it, and brittany obviously loves sean. you always see him with her, not a nanny. if you really worked for cps i feel so sorry for those kids. i thought cps was supposed to help familys stay together! i'm so glad paparazzi wasn't around when i forgot to completely belt her in her carseat before we left the grocery store for home... i'll never forgive myself for that, but new moms make mistakes. period.

First of all it's "Britney" not "Brittany"

The role of CPS is not to keep families together, it's to keep idiot fucktard parents from neglecting/abusing their kids. They usually do not get called out unless there is repeat bad behavior on the part of the parent.

It's been reported in the press that she has possibly dropped him as many as four times. That's a pattern and the rule when I did abuse investigations for CPS was that if there was multiple incidents being reported you could take that number and times it by five to ten and come up with the probable number the kid was actually being abused. Where there's smoke there's fire.

How could you not 'read' it all? Learning disability or just short attention span? Gold Dust had some great points and completely summed up the situation for what it is exactly.