I don't know if there's something wrong with me too, but I honestly don't see the unnatural mother in those few quotes of her. I see someone who likes people, but isn't necessarily fond of babies, and, like someone said, she definitely seems to have a huge white guilt complex.
I can see love for Shiloh in that little part of this three-page interview that deals with the children - it's just seems to be a different love than the one she feels for the other two, who are older and whom she has, honestly, known for longer. She doesn't say that she doesn't love her biological child, or doesn't enjoy spending time with her; I understand it as her saying that she hasn't developed the same relationship with her as she has with the older kids, that the love she feels for her is different from the love she feels for Maddox and Zahara, and that she's surprised by how she has to compensate a little towards Shiloh, contrary to what she (and, obviously, everybody else as well) expected. And I really can't say that I think that makes her an unnatural mother.
As for the slut/married man debate, I say live and let live! So the divorce wasn't final - how long, exactly, does it take for these things to get legally finalized? A while, right? I'm not a US citizen and I don't know how US divorce proceedings work out, but I seem to remember Jessica Simpson filing divorce in, what, November? December? of 2005, and the divorce being finalized in May or June last year; and nobody accused Nick Lachey of being unfaithful to Jessica when he hooked up with Vanessa Minillo before the paperwork was finished with! Britney Spears is still legally not yet completely divorced from Kevin Federline, but no one is accusing Isaac Cohen of sleeping with a married woman; and on it goes.