First-hand celebrity rumours!

[bite me spidey]

Femme, calm down.

I was simply going through the forum and posting little things I noticed. I was curious. End of story. I enjoy everything you have written (even though I kind of knew/guessed the majority of it). I simply said a lot of this WOULD be "first-hand" because you are talking about things that happen at home, in the bedroom, etc. Which obviously you'd have to be there to experience. It's just the way you are writing it but I'm not saying you are "claiming" anything and I certainly wasn't insulting you.

I actually find your responses now more... questionable than anything you wrote. Why get so upset if you know you're telling the truth? I was just throwing out some questions... I wasn't calling you a liar.

I just re-read what I wrote and I only wrote a couple of sentences questioning you, and even so, I clearly said at the end, "Of course, this is just gossip so I guess she hears it the same way any other "gossip journalist" hears it around town." I clearly stated that in fairness to you after questioning. I wasn't doubting you. Everything else I said was in reference to the gossip itself. I'm really kind of taken aback by your outraged reaction... As you said this is just gossip. It doesn't matter so why get upset? I don't see anyone in here directly attacking you calling you a filthy liar or anything and people very well could be (I've seen people do it before to others).

By all means continue sharing... If you re-read my post I think you'd see that I was not harsh at all.

[sprynkles]

You go girl!!!!
I think 99% of us know it's gossip, and totally enjoy your posts. You know there are those who simply like to start shit.

[bite me spidey]

^ In response to her, I wasn't starting shit in any way, shape, or form. That's ridiculous. I was just wondering about some of the things she said, just like I wonder about other gossip articles that get written and how those people know about them. I was not insulting her.

Some people are really touchy here, which surprises me.

[Tater Tot]

Femme, don't let any of these peeps get you down! This is a great thread, thanks to you, and most of us here LOVE hearing this gossip. So, please keep it coming!

[olivia720]

this is one of the best threads I've seen on grocks in a long time.

[ChangingEventually]

Originally Posted by bite me spidey

Femme, calm down.

I was simply going through the forum and posting little things I noticed. I was curious. End of story. I enjoy everything you have written (even though I kind of knew/guessed the majority of it). I simply said a lot of this WOULD be "first-hand" because you are talking about things that happen at home, in the bedroom, etc. Which obviously you'd have to be there to experience. It's just the way you are writing it but I'm not saying you are "claiming" anything and I certainly wasn't insulting you.

I actually find your responses now more... questionable than anything you wrote. Why get so upset if you know you're telling the truth? I was just throwing out some questions... I wasn't calling you a liar.

I just re-read what I wrote and I only wrote a couple of sentences questioning you, and even so, I clearly said at the end, "Of course, this is just gossip so I guess she hears it the same way any other "gossip journalist" hears it around town." I clearly stated that in fairness to you after questioning. I wasn't doubting you. Everything else I said was in reference to the gossip itself. I'm really kind of taken aback by your outraged reaction... As you said this is just gossip. It doesn't matter so why get upset? I don't see anyone in here directly attacking you calling you a filthy liar or anything and people very well could be (I've seen people do it before to others).

By all means continue sharing... If you re-read my post I think you'd see that I was not harsh at all.

Actually, you are the only one of the many people doubting her. And yes, she gets VERY defensive when you try to ask her something or don't worship her for making the thread.


To the original poster:

1. A lot of what you posted is stuff everyone already guessed, so no wonder people believe you. People think they're right, and you're basically telling them they were right all along.

2. A lot of what you posted isn't true. And I know it for a fact. I don't feel like sharing how I know it, because that's private and could get a whole bunch of people in trouble. I'm not going to exploit anyone.

3. You get VERY defensive when someone asks about your sources. More than neccesary. People usually do that when they have something to hide.

4. I don't care if you say this is all just gossip. A lot of people looked at this thread and made it seem like you were confirming their opinions, therfeore, some don't see it as gossip. It doesn't matter if that wasn't your intention.

5. Notice how you're attacking almost every person who has been called good looking in Hollywood. You're doing it in a very jealous way as well. That's the tone you give off. That's why I first thought you were faking this whole thing. And then you proved it to me in later comments.

6. No, I'm not trying to start drama. But there ARE people who are reading this and thinking you're confirming all of this, even if that wasn't your intention. I just want them to know that some of this is not true.

7. There's an entire group of people who don't believe you. Most of them aren't making themselves known on this thread. And that's fine. But really, when a group of people doubt you and think you're faking this all, maybe you should ponder why.

8. You can reply back all you want. I'm done with you. I told my side, you can deny it all you want. As I said, I'm not here to start drama, just give my side. I've done that. Goodbye.

[bite me spidey]

Originally Posted by ChangingEventually

Actually, you are the only one of the many people doubting her. And yes, she gets VERY defensive when you try to ask her something or don't worship her for making the thread.


To the original poster:

1. A lot of what you posted is stuff everyone already guessed, so no wonder people believe you. People think they're right, and you're basically telling them they were right all along.

2. A lot of what you posted isn't true. And I know it for a fact. I don't feel like sharing how I know it, because that's private and could get a whole bunch of people in trouble. I'm not going to exploit anyone.

3. You get VERY defensive when someone asks about your sources. More than neccesary. People usually do that when they have something to hide.

4. I don't care if you say this is all just gossip. A lot of people looked at this thread and made it seem like you were confirming their opinions, therfeore, some don't see it as gossip. It doesn't matter if that wasn't your intention.

5. Notice how you're attacking almost every person who has been called good looking in Hollywood. You're doing it in a very jealous way as well. That's the tone you give off. That's why I first thought you were faking this whole thing. And then you proved it to me in later comments.

6. No, I'm not trying to start drama. But there ARE people who are reading this and thinking you're confirming all of this, even if that wasn't your intention. I just want them to know that some of this is not true.

7. There's an entire group of people who don't believe you. Most of them aren't making themselves known on this thread. And that's fine. But really, when a group of people doubt you and think you're faking this all, maybe you should ponder why.

8. You can reply back all you want. I'm done with you. I told my side, you can deny it all you want. As I said, I'm not here to start drama, just give my side. I've done that. Goodbye.

Well I simply stated my "curiosity" as to where she got her information because someone else mentioned it first and, I thought, brought up good points so I agreed with her.

I have my own opinion right now about all of this but what I basically want to clarify is that I do not want to call anyone a liar and it was not my intention to do so. I doubt many, many gossip items because that's what I find "fun" in gossip and it makes it discussion worthy. I still doubt many of the things she said, and why she was so defensive to my curiosity about where her information comes from, but that is all. I really did not mean to "start" anything and it certainly wasn't my intention to call anyone a liar, per se.

[Chilly Willy]

ChangingEventually, it's great that you're concerned about everyone's conception of Femme Fatale's post, but we actually know to take EVERYTHING in every thread with a grain of salt. As mentioned before, this board is a gossip board. We are aware of that, you don't have to chaperon us. I enjoyed Femme's posts very much and apparently so did many others. If you don't like them, don't read them.

It seems like you think of yourself as the only one who can possibly have any knowledge of celebrities. Just saying, because you are the one accusing Femme of jealousy. If you don't want to share how you know that the information is wrong, don't say anything at all.

[Femmefatale]

changing eventually^^^ no worries. Im just going to ignore you and keep posting when I hear good info...id be lying if i said i wasnt somewhat amused by you, i think if you and bitemespidy knew how OFF you really are, itd be pretty entertaining *smooches*

[giggles]

Originally Posted by Chilly Willy

ChangingEventually, it's great that you're concerned about everyone's conception of Femme Fatale's post, but we actually know to take EVERYTHING in every thread with a grain of salt. As mentioned before, this board is a gossip board. We are aware of that, you don't have to chaperon us. I enjoyed Femme's posts very much and apparently so did many others. If you don't like them, don't read them.

It seems like you think of yourself as the only one who can possibly have any knowledge of celebrities. Just saying, because you are the one accusing Femme of jealousy. If you don't want to share how you know that the information is wrong, don't say anything at all.

I totally agree!

Also, 'changingeventually' you yourself cannot/will not quote your source(s). Very hypocritcal don't cha think?

And the "we" and "there's an entire group of people who don't believe you" is very immature. Also, in my opinion she is not "attacking" everyone who is "good looking." For the most part, I do not find anyone in Hollywood to be "good looking" so to that point, it's your opinion vs someone else's.

Get a life.

And as far as "we've already known some of this" stance, well duh! She's just adding a little bit more info and/or substance.

[bite me spidey]

Originally Posted by Femmefatale

changing eventually^^^ no worries. Im just going to ignore you and keep posting when I hear good info...id be lying if i said i wasnt somewhat amused by you, i think if you and bitemespidy knew how OFF you really are, itd be pretty entertaining *smooches*

Did you not read my posts? I repeatedly said I was not attacking you. I question all gossip that's part of the fun of it for me and of course I'm curious like everyone else is. That does not mean I am attacking (like you are taking it). How many times must I say that?

I did not even mention anything to be "off" of so what exactly are you saying? I gave my opinion about certain things—like everybody else did, and I was not alone in any of my opinions—and threw out some things i was curious about.

FYI Femme, just because I wasn't kissing your ass doesn't mean I meant any harm. I enjoy the gossip like everyone else but I personally find it a bit more interesting when you question and discuss. Simply drooling over it is not my cup of tea.

This is the last time I'm going to say this because I'm finding the twisting of my words more and more stupid and tiresome. I simply came in here to discuss and read; nothing more.

Originally Posted by giggles

Also, 'changingeventually' you yourself cannot/will not quote your source(s). Very hypocritcal don't cha think?

I don't want to defend anyone, but that's not true or hypocritical. I think most of the so called "questioning" comes from Femme's outraged behavior at a simple post (or at least, that's really the only thing I'M questioning at the moment) not the fact that she is not "listing her sources" because OF COURSE she can't! I've known many people with inside information who love gossip but they can never site sources because it would be detrimental to their career. They may love gossip but they don't want to lose their job, and it's very easy to track someone down nowadays—especially online. Heck I could do it!

Ok, I'm done clarifying myself. If you mistook the meaning of my post and took it personally, that is your problem because I have said time and time again, I was not purposely attacking anyone, I was simply discussing and I even said many times that it's just gossip and she probably gets her information just like everybody else.

[giggles]

^^are you one in the same?

[Femmefatale]

fyi-
lets move on

squash it

before they lock the thread =)

[bite me spidey]

Originally Posted by giggles

^^are you one in the same?

...Should I try to decipher that?

And I'm all fine and dandy with moving on. I've been trying to move on but when my words are picked out and twisted I feel the need to clarify. Nothing more nothing less.

[Chilly Willy]

So bring on the gossip then, y'all!