I see what you mean. I guess what I'm thinking of is a lot of people that I know that are redneck ARE intentionally redneck but don't think of themselves as being "redneck." They're just intentionally fitting in with what's normal for them. To me, a true redneck wedding is one that is so redneck when it is trying to be earnest. Being redneck just for the sake of being redneck is just blah. (like LeMann's Halloween costume) It's like dressing up trashy intentionally and going to Wal-Mart just to get on the People of Wal-Mart site. And I just realized I've never typed the word redneck this much in my life and not it's starting to do that thing where a normal word starts looking and sounding completely weird.