Seriously Heidi - it sucks that you have aids as a result of your addiction. My ex-husband (father of my child and my best friend) is dead due his addiction to alcohol. I know what it is like to watch someone die and know it could have been prevented. Thing is, he kept his sense of humor right up until he decided to end his life instead of waiting for the disease to take him. Just about everyone on this board has been through something major or had a family member who has.
You had a choice here. You were upset that Grimm and others posted pics of Amy. Since that bothered you so much you should have stopped coming to the thread. Instead you came in, guns blazing, and decided to tell all of us what is appropriate and what is not, based on your biased opinion. That will not fly in the real world and it certainly will not fly on a gossip board.
I wish you all the best in your treatment and ongoing recovery. Most of all, I wish you lightness of the heart and lots of laughter.