Taylor Swift and Conor Kennedy Break Up!!!!

**greysfang** · October 26th, 2012, 05:05 PM

I like Taylor fine, now her insipid music is another story.

**Air Quotes** · October 26th, 2012, 05:44 PM

^This. For some reason I quite like her but can't stand her music.

**NVash** · October 26th, 2012, 05:46 PM

Originally Posted by MrsDark

Well nowadays everyone assumes one bangs every guy dated. While I understand this is not necessarily true, I think she has. I just don't buy her goody two shoes act.

Is it the songs that she writes to purposely get back at the men?

**shedevilang** · October 26th, 2012, 06:02 PM

Her music is what it is pop crap wrote for little girls but I don't get the hate on her. She's young and she has a rather ambitious career which I would think would make it hard for her to keep a realtionship going. Hell I say kudo's to her for not settling and marrying one of these douchebags.

**arie_skop** · October 26th, 2012, 06:05 PM

Now she can write about this break up. Her relationships don't last long, at least it gives her some material to write about.

**dksnj** · October 26th, 2012, 07:55 PM

Originally Posted by czb

why? seems kinda normal to me to date lots of people when you are young. not everyone gets married or engaged by 22 and not everyone has long term boyfriends at 22.

Agreed. My daughter is 22 and she has been dating the same guy since she was 15. Not that I don't like him, but i really wish she would have dated other guys - just to know what else is out there (that probably didn't come out right, but you know what i mean )

**czb** · October 26th, 2012, 11:19 PM

^^^ i know exactly what you mean.

does she plan on marrying the guy?

**Sarzy** · October 27th, 2012, 04:13 AM

I get what you mean dksnj, but at the same time I think if she's found someone she loves and wants to be with then there's no need to date around. I know a few people from school that got together around the age of 15 and are still happily together and married at 30. So it works for some.

**dksnj** · October 27th, 2012, 06:30 AM

Originally Posted by czb

^^^ i know exactly what you mean.

does she plan on marrying the guy?

No plans in the making yet. She does has have a good head on her shoulders, so we'll see what happens.

Originally Posted by Sarzy

I get what you mean dksnj, but at the same time I think if she's found someone she loves and wants to be with then there's no need to date around. I know a few people from school that got together around the age of 15 and are still happily together and married at 30. So it works for some.

True. I just don't want her to have any regrets down the road. Of course, I'll support whatever she does.

**czb** · October 27th, 2012, 11:13 AM

Originally Posted by dksnj

True. I just don't want her to have any regrets down the road. Of course, I'll support whatever she does.

you sound like a good mom. but i'm assuming you haven't told her how you feel (about dating others)?

**SuriCruise** · October 27th, 2012, 04:42 PM

I just find it funny how more than half of the exes her songs are supposed to be about are gay. I don't think she always knows she's a beard in these situations (Jake G, Taylor Lautner, Jonas, any more?). Nothing wrong with dating around, but her songs make her sound like a clingy princess nightmare to date.

**Janet296** · October 28th, 2012, 08:47 AM

Taylor might be like my oldest friend Mary. Mary is the sort of girl who hears wedding bells after a few dates. I lover her but after a month of dating she starts talking marriage. I keep telling her it isn't a race or competion. Take your time! Mary is now on her fourth marriage. I think Taylor might have the same problem. Sh has a lot going for her so I can only guess that she is scaring them off.

**Seapharris7** · October 28th, 2012, 11:50 AM

^ Only Taylor isnt marrying them. Does your friend Mary know statistically the more you get married the higher probability of getting divorced. AGAIN.

Now, since most marriage will end in divorce that may be a null point... but after 4 marriage isnt she a little afraid of going through a divorce again? I'm asking because I got married too young, divorced after 5 years & have been divorced for 5 years & I'm just not warming up to possibly getting married again.

**Janet296** · October 28th, 2012, 03:09 PM

^Preaching to the choir here. I have given up on talking her into slowing things down. She is going to do it anyway. She will not listen to reason. We are both 43 BTW. I always hope for the best though.
Back to Taylor.....I know she isn't marrying them but I'll bet she gets way too clingy and serious. You know, the person who expects you to call her several times a day. Maybe wants an immediate reply when she texts them. Expects you to spend everyday with her while she isn't touring. I mean come on, she bought a house next to the Kennedy guy after a few dates. I know she has money but good lord! It didn't cross her mind that getting the house was not a good idea?

**witchcurlgirl** · October 28th, 2012, 03:49 PM

i don't care if she did fuck them all. to me, fucking 5 or 6 guys still doesn't make someone a slut. ymmv.

her music is dreck, but that's another story.