Sandra Bullock in custody battle with husband’s porn star ex-wife

[nawteenikki]

Originally Posted by Novice

The ex-wife has documented anger issue; when a kid has unexplained bruises & doesn't want to go home it merits investigating...

I didn't think that he left his wife for her because if he leftwhen his wife was 7 mths pregnant & the kid was born in Jan - that's November 2004.... SB arranged a tour of monster garage for her godson as an Xmas present.... Xmas = December....

And yes SB is JJ's third wife, I find in more "interesting" that she'd never been married at late-30/40 when she finally ties the knot. Who's to say who is less or mire dysfunctional???

I think a lot more of it has to do w/ the fact that the kid is at the age where her mind thinks "who can give me more stuff?" I think Sandra exploits that. Janine has been on Stern basically saying that Sandra goes out of her way to upstage and undermine Janine. As for bruises, I don't know but kids get bruises and if you are trying to fight for custody you are going to manipulate the situation to get Sunny from Janine. Maybe she isn't the most stable parent in the world but who is? It's not right for Jesse to have everything go his way and leave Janine with nothing. She got nothing in the divorce.

[sluce]

This child is way too young to be of a mindset of "who can give me more things."

The court will review the case and determine who can provide the most stable home for Sunny. They don't care who got what in the divorce or who will be left with nothing. They may also view how he parents his other 2 kids.

[marie]

Originally Posted by Mel1973

that could work both ways, couldn't it?

Not realy bc when the girl live with him it cost him at least the same, its not like you spend less on a kid who live with you.

[nawteenikki]

Originally Posted by sluce

This child is way too young to be of a mindset of "who can give me more things."

The court will review the case and determine who can provide the most stable home for Sunny. They don't care who got what in the divorce or who will be left with nothing.

That's not true. MY sister does evaluations for divorcing parents re: custody. You'd be surprised how many of them want to live w/ the parent who can give them more. That starts about age 4 and up. That is their main criteria, toys, etc.

[Mel1973]

Originally Posted by marie

Not realy bc when the girl live with him it cost him at least the same, its not like you spend less on a kid who live with you.

yeah but when you're an asshole, you'd rather spend the money yourself rather than let your ex wife spend it - even if it is being spent on your daughter.

[sluce]

Originally Posted by nawteenikki

That's not true. MY sister does evaluations for divorcing parents re: custody. You'd be surprised how many of them want to live w/ the parent who can give them more. That starts about age 4 and up. That is their main criteria, toys, etc.

You are correct, I would be very surprised. I have been doing home studies and custody evaluations for more than 20 years and have never seen a child of 4-5 asked which parent they want to live with. That is an inappropriate question to ask of a child so young.

[word]

Originally Posted by greysfang

She stole her husband.

Originally Posted by greysfang

He admitted in an interview that he moved in with Sandra while his wife was still pregnant.

Originally Posted by greysfang

Jesse reportedly only spent 30 minutes with the child on the day she was born for the first 2-3 years of her life

Originally Posted by ManxMouse

Jesse seems like a total white trash douchebag. And all porn stars are fucked in the head in one way or another, so someone who would marry one would be a dealbreaker for me....not to mention the ick factor. What an odd choice of marriage material for SB.

Jesse is a white trash douchebag.
I used to like SB but this is disgusting.

[Coban]

Sandra Bullock is a very smart businesswoman. She produces her own films and makes a profit even when they aren't huge hits.

At one time she was one of the highest paid actresses in Hollywood. I think she's really attractive, too. She has donated a lot of money to charity. And just seems like an all-around nice and together person.

Why did she marry someone like Jesse James? Maybe he's a nice guy with a great sense of humor and a big dick, but you would think all the previous marriages and the pregnant porn star wife would put someone like Sandra Bullock off.

[Mel1973]

Originally Posted by Coban

Sandra Bullock is a very smart businesswoman. She produces her own films and makes a profit even when they aren't huge hits.

At one time she was one of the highest paid actresses in Hollywood. I think she's really attractive, too. She has donated a lot of money to charity. And just seems like an all-around nice and together person.

Why did she marry someone like Jesse James? Maybe he's a nice guy with a great sense of humor and a big dick, but you would think all the previous marriages and the pregnant porn star wife would put someone like Sandra Bullock off.

my brother says her huge adam's apple makes her very unattractive...

[Trixie]

Originally Posted by Coban

Sandra Bullock is a very smart businesswoman. She produces her own films and makes a profit even when they aren't huge hits.

At one time she was one of the highest paid actresses in Hollywood. I think she's really attractive, too. She has donated a lot of money to charity. And just seems like an all-around nice and together person.

Why did she marry someone like Jesse James? Maybe he's a nice guy with a great sense of humor and a big dick, but you would think all the previous marriages and the pregnant porn star wife would put someone like Sandra Bullock off.

I agree, it seems like an odd pairing. But who knows what she's like in her private life. She's not the first "nice girl" to marry a bad boy, that's for sure.

[bellini]

It's funny how when it's about Angelina, you'll read indignant posts saying "You can't steal a man!". But this doesn't apply to Sandra Bullock? I really doubt she had to do much "stealing" to get him away from a skanky porn star. And come on, anyone who does porn is skanky.

From all outward appearances, the kid will most probably have a much better life with Sandra Bullock. She's lucky.

[Novice]

Originally Posted by aabbcc

Lots of women wait to get married. My cousin didn't get married until she was in her forties. My mother and father didn't get married until their late thirties. I'm 44 and single. I don't consider any of us dysfunctional. Marriage isn't the only way to live your life.

It was a response to the "he's not a catch he's been married 3 times" comment.... I've been single most of my adult life so maybe it does show that its a bad thing.... (j/k).

Originally Posted by Chilly Willy

Aren't all porn stars drug addicts?

Obviously....

Originally Posted by greysfang

But anyway, let the courts decide. I'm just saying ain't one side of this family any better than the other .

Yep, let the courts decide and I think that I agree with your 2nd statement that I've quoted there too...

Originally Posted by Trixie

I don't think she's an angel, but don't necessarily think she's concocted some evil plot to steal some other woman's kid either. Why, because she has no bio kids of her own? I find that offensive.

Oh you should hear them on some other sites... (plus I thought the inital article wasn't unbiased.... given previous posts) BTW that is where my rant came from!

For the poster that said that the child just wants to be with the richer parent... I'm actually sickened by your suggestion for such a young child (teenagers, yeah, no doubt!).
This was the article from the bruises... Jesse James (Sandra Bullock's husband) fights for 50% custody of 3-year-old daughter

I do like Jesse and Sandra but unless Janine is abusive (which I doubt) she has every right to keep her kid.

Not sure why you doubt it, Mothers can be just as abusive as fathers & throw in a drug problem....

Rumor: Sandra Bullock and Jesse James fight for custody of Jesse's daughter, Sunny
By Tara, CBB Contributor
Sandra Bullock and husband Jesse James are reportedly in the process of fighting for custody over Jesse's 3 year-old daughter, Sunny. Currently, Sunny's mother and Jesse's ex, porn star Janine Lindemulder has custody. Apparently, Sunny has shown up at Jesse and Sandra's house with suspicious marks and bruises. Jesse's remarks in court papers state,

Sunny had small scratches and what appeared to be broken blood vessels and a bruise on her left cheek and a few bruises around her left and right eye. When my wife gently asked her if it hurt she said: 'Yes, but the bleeding stopped.' She just said 'mommy's chair' when we asked how it happened. [Janine] was to pick her up on Saturday afternoon but when she arrived (an hour late), Sunny screamed and cried she didn't want to go.

My wife and I let Sunny stay with us in bed Saturday night. We didn't think she should be alone. During the night she was very restless and seemed to be angry and crying off and on, but clearly cried out: 'don't touch me' and 'don't do that.'

In addition, Jesse says he's willing to drop his court action against Janine if she gives him 50 percent custody of their daughter. However, Janine says Jesse has only been involved in Sunny's life since January - before that, she claims he had only seen her for 30 minutes on the day she was born. A friend of Janine's says,

Janine doesn't have any problems with Sandra, but she does think it was Sandra who convinced Jesse to take a more active role in his daughter's life. Janine is a loving, caring mother. She welcomes any sort of investigation into her household. She has nothing to hide. Just because she's a porn star people automatically assume she's not a good mother - and that's simply not true!

Jesse has two other children with his first wife Karla James, Jesse James, Jr., 7, and Chandler, 9. Sandra has spoken about being close to her step children and loving them like they were her own.

Source: The National Enquirer
Celebrity Baby Blog: Rumor: Sandra Bullock and Jesse James fight for custody of Jesse's daughter, Sunny

[Mel1973]

Originally Posted by bellini

It's funny how when it's about Angelina, you'll read indignant posts saying "You can't steal a man!". But this doesn't apply to Sandra Bullock? I really doubt she had to do much "stealing" to get him away from a skanky porn star. And come on, anyone who does porn is skanky.

From all outward appearances, the kid will most probably have a much better life with Sandra Bullock. She's lucky.

Maybe Sandra will be on her way to St. Ange status soon. She's going to have to really start shooting out some baybees soon though!

Originally Posted by Novice

For the poster that said that the child just wants to be with the richer parent... I'm actually sickened by your suggestion for such a young child (teenagers, yeah, no doubt!).

Agreed, I find that statement to be completely coated in bullshit.

[DeChayz]

Janine doesn't have any problems with Sandra, but she does think it was Sandra who convinced Jesse to take a more active role in his daughter's life.

Uh, and that's a bad thing?

[bellini]

Yeah a three year old is so unaware of "stuff". My pre-teens on the other hand would probably trade me in for a couple of Playstation games. At that age they can be influenced and bribed, but at three, they're oblivious to acquiring things.