Rosario Dawson: 'I Was a Virgin Until I Was 20!'

**effie2** · September 7th, 2014, 04:56 AM

I salute you.Ladies,marrying and still with the first man you had.The idea of knowing one man only in my lifetime was and still is depressing and un thinkable to me.I am too much of a slut.

**MohandasKGanja** · September 7th, 2014, 10:22 AM

Originally Posted by effie2

I salute you.Ladies,marrying and still with the first man you had.The idea of knowing one man only in my lifetime was and still is depressing and un thinkable to me.I am too much of a slut.

I like the way you think.

**whitetigeress** · September 7th, 2014, 11:01 AM

Spent a summer with a 17 yr old who then laid me down on a cold concrete floor of a public bathroom. Afterwards, laughed saying "You're not virgin anymore" and literally went off scouting for the next girl. I was 13.
His friends were appalled. Waited til he turned 18 then reported his criminal activities (theft)> he went to jail where a cousin "bubba" met up with him.
Hmm... yah, lousy at picking bfs but great at making friends *grins*

Been married then divorced, engaged twice, and in a decade long common in law relationship where I had kids. Did it all. Then spent the last 10yrs being a slut. No regrets. Being a slut was the least emotionally painful.
Like effie says, so much respect for those of you who stay with your one and only. So much!
I can only fathom the idea til it stings like a mofo.
Wish I didn't like boys til I was at least..............30?

**MsDark** · September 7th, 2014, 11:16 AM

I wonder who on GR has had the most sex partners?

**effie2** · September 7th, 2014, 11:18 AM

Oh,dont get me wrong,I salute our one and only ladies but i respect our sluts equally.It takes all kinds,eh?
I had a great time being with my kid,s dad for more than 30 years,but then i had a blast before AND after him...even the assholes in my life gave me some beautiful moments..I hope there is more in store for me,even in my late years..

**Moongirl** · September 7th, 2014, 12:47 PM

Well, the guy I lost my virginity to is my husband, we've been married for 19 years (slept with him before we got married, I wasn't a Duggar about it

); I'm not gonna lie though, once in a while I do wonder how it would be with someone else, but I could never bring myself to cheat on my husband just to experiment.

**Charmed Hour** · September 7th, 2014, 01:08 PM

Almost 20 with other half. I did however get 2 more under my belt before we got back together as a couple. Should have tried out 20 more. Lol

**Beeyotch** · September 7th, 2014, 02:09 PM

17 and it was disappointing. 5 partners total. While the chase and "test driving" was exciting, turns out I got it right on my second try: only my husband ever really blew my mind.

Of course, if I hadn't ended up in a ltr I would have done a lot more test driving.

**Kittylady** · September 7th, 2014, 06:58 PM

23 (I'm not the oldest!!!

) and I thought we'd be together forever and in a way we are - he's now my bestest, most infuriating, couldn't do without him friend.

**ConstanceSpry** · September 7th, 2014, 07:11 PM

15, and married the guy a few years later. That was almost 35 years ago!

**Bombshell** · September 7th, 2014, 09:56 PM

Originally Posted by MrsDark

I wonder who on GR has had the most sex partners?

*Pretends to pick lint off of sweater*

Oh, my. Look at this stain on my sweater. I better, uh...go. Now.

**MohandasKGanja** · September 7th, 2014, 10:25 PM

Originally Posted by Kittylady

23 (I'm not the oldest!!!

) and I thought we'd be together forever and in a way we are - he's now my bestest, most infuriating, couldn't do without him friend.

We were just telling the kids today that Mrs. Mohandas and I met when I was 23 and she was 24 (I love older women). So, I am 48 now, and have been with the same person my entire adult life.

When I was a teenager, I was lonely and imaginative enough to put together in my head who my ideal partner would be - a beautiful, smart, strong-willed, athletic person who would enthusiastically go on all kinds of adventures with me. I still remember being in church in my early twenties, after breaking up with a long-time girlfriend (it was mutual) and actually praying to God to put someone in my path. It is just freaking astounding to me that I ended up with EXACTLY who I had been desperately hoping for. I am just grateful to have been mature enough to realize the opportunity I was given - and take it.

Nauseating, but true!

**Just Kill Me** · September 7th, 2014, 10:50 PM

This past Friday marks exactly one year since the last time I had sex.

**Kittylady** · September 8th, 2014, 02:47 AM

Don't worry, by year two or three it stops bothering you and by year four it's a breeze lol.

**hustle4alivin** · September 8th, 2014, 09:37 AM

23. With a woman

And that's when I truly realized that I was gay, LOL

Originally Posted by MohandasKGanja

We were just telling the kids today that Mrs. Mohandas and I met when I was 23 and she was 24 (I love older women). So, I am 48 now, and have been with the same person my entire adult life.

When I was a teenager, I was lonely and imaginative enough to put together in my head who my ideal partner would be - a beautiful, smart, strong-willed, athletic person who would enthusiastically go on all kinds of adventures with me. I still remember being in church in my early twenties, after breaking up with a long-time girlfriend (it was mutual) and actually praying to God to put someone in my path. It is just freaking astounding to me that I ended up with EXACTLY who I had been desperately hoping for. I am just grateful to have been mature enough to realize the opportunity I was given - and take it.

Nauseating, but true!

Not nauseating at all, it's a very sweet story!