Olympian Bode Miller Opens Up About "Brutal" Custody Battle for Son Nate, 9 Months

**Shinola** · December 9th, 2013, 04:20 PM

This stuff on the wife's blog could be plausible, but tbh I have been pushed toward considering whether I need to file for a protective order based on civil harassment from my ex's new wife, and she has done things such as create a fake medical history for me claiming that because of a med condition, I never bonded with my child and damaged him psychologically. She has made claims that I did and did not do various things, all of it either distorted, irrelevant, or fabricated. There is enough reality fueling it that I can only assume that my ex has fed her things and either warped them himself or let her do the warping and lying. He also is quite pleased that she has attacked me via email even after a court order called for him to do the communicating and to do so only in a civil manner.

So if this woman were to blog about me, I wonder ... would her string of allegations sound plausible? I think they might. Yet they would be untrue.

Anyway, I hope the bio mom is a decent person, bc Bode Miller and his wife appear not to be. Maybe she isn't ... Seems like psychological evals might be in order, but I can't say how reliable I think they would be. Certain types are able to impress psychologists as just fine even when they aren't.

**MontanaMama** · December 9th, 2013, 04:23 PM

I think the name change really just says enough to me. It undermines every allegation of the wife's blog post.

**witchcurlgirl** · December 9th, 2013, 04:27 PM

^ yes. that, and the fact that she wanted to put these allegations out there in a blog makes me give her the stink eye on this.

**MontanaMama** · December 9th, 2013, 04:34 PM

But her truth! She must share her truth.

**sluce** · December 9th, 2013, 04:36 PM

Originally Posted by Kittylady

You know that if you do that Sluce will make sure you are never seen or heard from again...

Originally Posted by MontanaMama

She wouldn't dare harm George's progeny.

If MM turns up pregnant (with those ancient eggs) she is more than welcome to name George as the father. Then George and I will take the baby and raise it as our own.

The things that confuse me here:

Was the baby born in NY? If so, why did the Cali court think they had any standing to order a change to a NY birth certificate?

The NY court ruled that she had purposely taken the fetus to NY to hurt Bode and get more favorable conditions. They ordered that the child be returned to Cali and gave joint custody. So in fact they did not remove the baby from the mother. They basically kicked them out of the state, and since she was living in NY, Bode got the baby by default. A higher court stated the ruling is wrong and reversed it. This is a NY case and should be handled in the NY courts using all guidelines for interstate agreements. I see cases all the time where non custodial parents attend hearing via video from their local domestic relations so they do not have to travel.

Both parents should have equal access, even if he previously said he didn't want the child. However, NY can't say she abducted a fetus and kick her out for Gods sake.

**ManxMouse** · December 9th, 2013, 04:52 PM

Also -- the new wife should have NO involvement in this dispute. It's between the 2 bio parents (and courts) to resolve, not her getting her sticky fingers into this mess at this point. If it's in fact true that Sara was harassing her, then deal with that part of it, but her pontificating about the best interests of this baby that is NOT hers, is completely ridiculous.

**Shinola** · December 9th, 2013, 04:54 PM

Originally Posted by witchcurlgirl

^ yes. that, and the fact that she wanted to put these allegations out there in a blog makes me give her the stink eye on this.

More fundamentally, this is a matter between the father and the mother and legally does not include Mrs. Miller. I.e., she needs to butt out as much as possible.

I am remarried and a stepmom, and if I were ever to make online comments about my stepdaughter's mom, (a) my husband would be very upset and shut it down immediately, (b) I would realize I was harming my stepdaughter by posting shit about her mom, and (c) I would expect legal action against me aimed at shutting me the eff up.

But I have found that some people don't think laws apply to them, nor basic decency and common sense. AND that those very same people enjoy painting themselves as heroes and saints.

**Shinola** · December 9th, 2013, 04:58 PM

Originally Posted by ManxMouse

Also -- the new wife should have NO involvement in this dispute. It's between the 2 bio parents (and courts) to resolve, not her getting her sticky fingers into this mess at this point. If it's in fact true that Sara was harassing her, then deal with that part of it, but her pontificating about the best interests of this baby that is NOT hers, is completely ridiculous.

beat me to it.

**Kittylady** · December 9th, 2013, 05:00 PM

Originally Posted by ManxMouse

Also -- the new wife should have NO involvement in this dispute. It's between the 2 bio parents (and courts) to resolve, not her getting her sticky fingers into this mess at this point. If it's in fact true that Sara was harassing her, then deal with that part of it, but her pontificating about the best interests of this baby that is NOT hers, is completely ridiculous.

Manx it sounds like it was the other way around - Morgan Miller was accused of harassing Sara McKenna. I don't know what the outcome was but Morgan's blog post painting Sara as an all round bitch and uninterested mother adds some credence to Sara's claims, IMHO.

Originally Posted by sluce

Last year, not long after giving birth, McKenna actually filed a police report against Bode's wife for harassing her online.

Bode Miller's got some lady trouble -- to say the least -- his new baby mama just filed a police report against his new wife, Morgan Beck, for aggravated harassment ... TMZ has learned.

Sara McKenna -- who popped out Bode's kid last month -- filed the report Thursday with the NYPD, claiming Morgan (a pro volleyball champ) has been attacking her online with threatening messages.

Sources close to the situation tell TMZ, Sara told cops that Morgan sent out a slew of negative tweets about her under fake accounts -- calling her names like "c**t" and "bitch" -- then accused Sara of kidnapping Bode's kid and threatened to have her custody rights taken away.

Sara also told cops Morgan's harassing her non-stop with unwanted telephone calls.

TMZ has confirmed the NYPD is currently investigating Sara's claims.

Calls to Bode's lawyer have not been returned. Extensive attempts to reach Morgan for comment have been unsuccessful.

Read more: Bode Miller's Baby Mama Files Police Report -- His Wife Is Harassing Me!!! | TMZ.com

**MontanaMama** · December 9th, 2013, 05:02 PM

Originally Posted by sluce

If MM turns up pregnant (with those ancient eggs) she is more than welcome to name George as the father. Then George and I will take the baby and raise it as our own.

The things that confuse me here:

Was the baby born in NY? If so, why did the Cali court think they had any standing to order a change to a NY birth certificate?

The NY court ruled that she had purposely taken the fetus to NY to hurt Bode and get more favorable conditions. They ordered that the child be returned to Cali and gave joint custody. So in fact they did not remove the baby from the mother. They basically kicked them out of the state, and since she was living in NY, Bode got the baby by default. A higher court stated the ruling is wrong and reversed it. This is a NY case and should be handled in the NY courts using all guidelines for interstate agreements. I see cases all the time where non custodial parents attend hearing via video from their local domestic relations so they do not have to travel.

Both parents should have equal access, even if he previously said he didn't want the child. However, NY can't say she abducted a fetus and kick her out for Gods sake.

I will not have my slightly mature ovaries impugned with your ageist ad hominem attack! I may be a decade or 2 older than Georgie's prime dating age, but then again aren't you too? And I shall bring Southpearmossgadget (my reserved celeb child name, which alone wold prove George's paternity)

**Flygirl** · December 9th, 2013, 06:15 PM

Originally Posted by witchcurlgirl

^ yes. that, and the fact that she wanted to put these allegations out there in a blog makes me give her the stink eye on this.

Like most celebs, no one in this trio seems to have much of an internet/social media filter.

**Fly_On_TheWall** · December 9th, 2013, 08:38 PM

He wasn't in his girl childs life for the first four years? Sounds like Wifey is pulling the strings and he just lets her. If wifey wasn't in the picture, he wouldn't give a rats ass about those kids.

**sluce** · December 9th, 2013, 08:48 PM

Originally Posted by MontanaMama

I will not have my slightly mature ovaries impugned with your ageist ad hominem attack! I may be a decade or 2 older than Georgie's prime dating age, but then again aren't you too? And I shall bring Southpearmossgadget (my reserved celeb child name, which alone wold prove George's paternity)

My age is of no concern to George as I am ageless.

PS - I have already filed paperwork to change that name.

**ManxMouse** · December 9th, 2013, 10:50 PM

Originally Posted by Kittylady

Manx it sounds like it was the other way around - Morgan Miller was accused of harassing Sara McKenna. I don't know what the outcome was but Morgan's blog post painting Sara as an all round bitch and uninterested mother adds some credence to Sara's claims, IMHO.

they have both accused each other of harassing behavior. I don't believe MM, but just saying even if the mom was giving her shit, she still needs to shut her trap and let the process work.