Nicole Kidman pregnant and drinking at the Oscars

[Trixie]

In most of the pics I've seen of Nicole and Keith together, Nicole is always smiling or laughing and she looks completely relaxed and truly happy ... a big difference from the reserved poses with CrazyCruise.

ITA....relaxed and genuine. I think she actually loves this husband!

[Morticia]

I also find it hard to believe that she'd be drinking wine when she knows her husband is an alcaholic. I could be wrong, but it seems that generally partners of alcaholics steer clear of alcahol in support of their partner. Was Keith around at the time?

[tee-ha-ha]

I also noticed the ones who scream the loudest of what a pregnant woman should do or not do are people with no kids of their own.

I don't have kids and I don't give a flying fuck what pregnant women do to themselves or their fetuses, long as I don't have to pay for it.

[sparkly]

^That's very to the point, and mostly I agree. A little wine doesn't hurt a fetus. Tabloids are just looking for drama.

[Butterfly]

I don't have kids and I don't give a flying fuck what pregnant women do to themselves or their fetuses, long as I don't have to pay for it.

And you shouldn't give a fuck what a pregnant woman does because it is non of your business.

[sparkly]

^True, but and I think that's what tee-ha-ha was trying to say. Most people, especially mothers, are always sticking their nose in pregnant women's business, and it's not cool.

[tee-ha-ha]

And you shouldn't give a fuck what a pregnant woman does because it is non of your business.

That's what I said. I don't care. I don't care what anyone does to themselves as long as it doesn't affect me and I don't have to pay for it.

Along that vein I would love it if these dainty pregnant ladies would stop passive-aggressively waving their hands furiously in front of their faces if they walk past me when I'm OUTDOORS smoking a cigarette. Lots of pregnant ladies smoked during pregnancy back in the day and the kids came out fine, right? Those big SUVs they seem to love driving will spew out far more harmful particulates than my cigarette will. I guess my cig just doesn't look as nice taking up two parking spaces.

[sparkly]

That's what I said. I don't care. I don't care what anyone does to themselves as long as it doesn't affect me and I don't have to pay for it.

Along that vein I would love it if these dainty pregnant ladies would stop passive-aggressively waving their hands furiously in front of their faces if they walk past me when I'm OUTDOORS smoking a cigarette. Lots of pregnant ladies smoked during pregnancy back in the day and the kids came out fine, right? Those big SUVs they seem to love driving will spew out far more harmful particulates than my cigarette will. I guess my cig just doesn't look as nice taking up two parking spaces.

I like the way you think. If it's none of anyone else's business what pregnant women do, then it's none of their business if you choose to smoke. All's fair, right?

[Butterfly]

It's not cool for anyone to stick their nose in any pregnant woman's business, if they have kids or not.

[tee-ha-ha]

I like the way you think. If it's none of anyone else's business what pregnant women do, then it's none of their business if you choose to smoke. All's fair, right?

Exactly. It's not like I'm blowing it in their face or anything.

[sparkly]

^We all agree. Technically, it's no one else's business what anyone does.

[Butterfly]

A lot of pregnant woman smoke and you'll hear smokers getting on them for smoking. I think everyone should mind their own business.

[sparkly]

^Does that include minding their own business about celebs too?

[tee-ha-ha]

A lot of pregnant woman smoke and you'll hear smokers getting on them for smoking. I think everyone should mind their own business.

Like I said, I don't give a shit. I think you've made your point. I know I've made mine. I'll recap though for anyone who might have missed it.

Butterfly: Nobody should criticize anything pregnant women do, particularly the childless

tee-ha-ha: Doesn't give a shit what pregnant ladies do

[Butterfly]

This is a gossip board and it is not like we are directly giving them advice more like bitching about them behind their backs .