Didn't plan on it myself but shit happens and I am happy with my decision (although the last couple teenage years I've wondered... j/k). Some people are not cut out for parenting and I think it's great when they recognize it in themselves.
Didn't plan on it myself but shit happens and I am happy with my decision (although the last couple teenage years I've wondered... j/k). Some people are not cut out for parenting and I think it's great when they recognize it in themselves.
as privileged as a whore...victims in demand for public show, swept out through the cracks beneath the door, holier than thou, how?
There is a difference between having an opinion and being judgmental about said opinion. I, like you said, gravitate toward people who live like I do, but I don't pass judgment on people who have made different choices with their lives. I feel that especially, as women, we should live and let live. Women do each other, or the progression of women in our society, any favors by tearing each other down.
"Women who are all about being moms and nothing else are boring, even to their kids and husbands."
I totally agree, and it's also not good for your kids.
I read an article recently written by a therapist. She said that people
who came into her office with 'issues' usually started with the same
thing: "My mother loved me very much, but.....".
She decided to start asking people in her life who were well-adjusted
about THEIR mothers. They often said, "My mother loved LIFE."
Teaching your kids how to live only for other people is a disservice to
your children. You should be teaching them by example how to LIVE, how to
grow and challenge yourself and enjoy your own interests. Not how to rely
on other people for all of your happiness and fulfillment.
I'm a mother, but I'm not just a mother..... how is that even possible?
Most moms I know do a little bit of everything.![]()
When I was younger, I said I wasn't cut out to be a mother. Fast forward to the present. I am a mother, with an AWESOME child. I am still what I was before; just a bit more juggling involved. I love every minute of it.
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