Quote Originally Posted by BITTER View Post
Sometimes people HAVE babies for selfish reasons. I think realizing that parenting is not your thing and NOT having kids is a very UNselfish act.
^This, exactly. I think her real concern was missing out on having something, not being a mother. She uses the word HAVE not BE. Nothing about being a mother and lots about "have a child", "have time". Her motivation was selfish and it's best she didn't have a child.