Britney Spears Breaks Up with BF After Video Surfaces of Him Cheating

**Kittylady** · August 29th, 2014, 07:35 AM

Originally Posted by Charmed Hour

Poor Britney. Everything is always analyzed under the scope of "she's crazy! Everyone is worried for her and by her".

That's what pisses me off - the premise that because she had a (very public) mental breakdown that she is forever damaged goods who will never recover any semblance of a normal life or functionality and can't be left alone with anything sharper than a sponge. That's insulting to Britney and ANYONE who has had a breakdown or mental health issue of any sort.

They can rag on her shitty hair extensions or the bad outfits she wears for all I care but I wish the press and people would stop perpetuating the cruel myths about mental illness that you are forever one step off being a suicidal cabbage for the rest of your life following a mental break.

**Charmed Hour** · August 29th, 2014, 07:53 AM

Originally Posted by mjw

For those that won't click a link-

The incriminating video showing Britney Spears' now ex-boyfriend cheating on her is now owned by none other than Britney's dad ... TMZ has learned.

TMZ broke the story ... a video has surfaced of David Lucadodancing with and kissing a woman a couple of weeks ago. A rep for Jamie Spears tells TMZ ... when Jamie got wind of the video he contacted the agency that was selling it and swifty coughed up a SUBSTANTIAL amount of money to secure it.

We're told Jamie -- who has been Britney's conservator for over 6 years -- then called Britney and told her he had something to show her ... and it was important. When Brit saw the evidence that was all she needed ... she immediately declared the relationship over.

Jamie's rep tells us he took the action to protect his daughter from David and from the embarrassment of the video going public.

Jamie's rep says the video is under lock and key and will never be seen again.

The wild card -- we don't know if the "other woman" who secretly shot the video made other copies, but Jamie's rep tells TMZ in no uncertain terms ... if anybody posts or publishes the video he will sue them for copyright infringement.

Read more: Britney Spears' Dad Secretly Purchased 'Cheating' Boyfriend Video | TMZ.com

How is it creepy? Jamie purchased it to protect his daughter.

I don't see how a video of him kissing and dancing is all that detrimental to Britney. Sure I'd be upset if I saw video of my partner kissing someone but at the end of the day it's not a huge deal when you've decided to end the relationship because of it. Now a video of him fucking someone else I would find devastating and certainly wouldn't want that floating around for mass consumption.

**Jazzy** · August 29th, 2014, 09:07 AM

Maybe Britney's dad set this whole thing up to get him to go quietly.

**sluce** · August 29th, 2014, 09:11 AM

Why would they do that. Brit was happy with him and the family appeared to like him.

Originally Posted by Kittylady

That's what pisses me off - the premise that because she had a (very public) mental breakdown that she is forever damaged goods who will never recover any semblance of a normal life or functionality and can't be left alone with anything sharper than a sponge. That's insulting to Britney and ANYONE who has had a breakdown or mental health issue of any sort.

They can rag on her shitty hair extensions or the bad outfits she wears for all I care but I wish the press and people would stop perpetuating the cruel myths about mental illness that you are forever one step off being a suicidal cabbage for the rest of your life following a mental break.

Quoted because this is so critical. I see it here every time she comes up. Everyone comments on the vacant eyes even though are many other pics showing her happy and normal. I guess it's more fun to pick the bad photos and call her crazy.

**dksnj** · August 29th, 2014, 10:18 AM

Title should have been:

Britney Spears' Dad Secretly Purchased 'Cheating' Boyfriend| TMZ.com

Cause I believe he was hired to be her bf.

**rollo** · August 29th, 2014, 02:05 PM

Originally Posted by Jazzy

Maybe Britney's dad set this whole thing up to get him to go quietly.

That crossed my mind too.

To answer the outrage about Britney and her crazy, first of all she had several severe incidents (and those were just the ones which happened in public) and secondly, as an adult and as a mother of two boys, she is under a prolonged conservatorship assigned to her father and she cannot manage either her family life or her career by herself and is not allowed to.

**sluce** · August 29th, 2014, 02:14 PM

Yes. That means she is bat shit crazy and will be for life. So much for breaking stigmas on mental illness.

**rollo** · August 29th, 2014, 02:16 PM

I don't see the general in the particular. * shrugs *

**Trixie** · August 29th, 2014, 02:17 PM

^ True. It's not like she had a major mental break, has now recovered, and is constantly having her breakdown thrown in her face. Obviously her family, the doctors and a judge all agree she still needs to be under the conservatorship. As far as we know, Britney isn't fighting it. So yeah, there is good reason to think her mental issues are ongoing and probably permanent.

**McJag** · August 29th, 2014, 02:35 PM

Hey. At least it was a woman.

**rollo** · August 29th, 2014, 02:43 PM

^ Does that prove it was a set-up?

**sluce** · August 29th, 2014, 04:09 PM

Originally Posted by Trixie

^ True. It's not like she had a major mental break, has now recovered, and is constantly having her breakdown thrown in her face. Obviously her family, the doctors and a judge all agree she still needs to be under the conservatorship. As far as we know, Britney isn't fighting it. So yeah, there is good reason to think her mental issues are ongoing and probably permanent.

Pretty much every person diagnosed will be ongoing and permanent. It doesn't mean it cannot be managed and they can't live fully productive, happy lives. Chances are strong that if Brit went to court and asked them revoke the conservatorship a judge would grant her request. She probably is happy having her father handle her business so she doesn't need to think about it. I doubt she managed it before the break down but probably didn't have anyone in place watching out for her best interest. Kevin may also have a stipulation in place saying she has to agree to the terms to have visitation. I have seen these agreements made and stay in place until the kids are adults.

**NickiDrea** · August 29th, 2014, 09:11 PM

Agree 100% Sluce.

**Bellatheball** · August 29th, 2014, 11:10 PM

I'm not making any judgments about mental illness or its chronicity but she does seem....dull? vacant? sad? preoccupied? medicated? I don't' know what it is but she very often has that glazed over look.