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    Monica Bellucci: It’s “ridiculous” to expect Vincent Cassel’s fidelity


    As you know, Monica Bellucci is one of my Forever Biscuits. I could very happily live the rest of my life in a deeply committed relationship with Monica, or Emma Thompson, or both. Alas, both of my top biscuits are taken - Emma is with Greg Wise (lucky bastard) and Monica is with French actor Vincent Cassel. Vincent and Monica have been married since 1999. They have two children together. And it sounds like they’re probably going to stay together too, because Monica has a very laissez faire approach to what I think of as “traditional” marital fidelity. It seems in Monica’s mind, she doesn’t really expect Vincent to be faithful to her if she’s not around for a while. What she does expect? “Loyalty” and “elegance”. Damn.
    Monica Bellucci wouldn’t mind her husband being unfaithful if they were apart for a while. The 46-year-old actress – who has daughters Deva, six, and 10-month-old Leonie with spouse Vincent Cassel – values respect and loyalty more in a relationship than fidelity.

    She said: “Passion you can feel for the worst man you ever met. But that has nothing to do with a deeper partnership. In such a one, passion stays, but more important is confidence, respect, knowing a man is not just loyal in a sex way, but that they will be there for you. That is more important than just fidelity.”

    “It would be ridiculous to ask [fidelity] of him if I hadn’t been there for two months. You can’t ask such things as who has he been seeing, what has he been up to? It is more respectful and realistic to take the view that you’ll be with me when I see you.”

    Ah, I say, discretion. She shakes her head. “No. I am talking about loyalty and, most important of all, elegance.” She repeats the word several times, explaining what she means. Elegance, for Bellucci, isn’t merely the cut of a suit, but a whole way of being in the world, of living in the present. This elegance is as French as a Gallic shrug, as Italian as a beautiful young girl on the back of a scooter zooming around Rome. It is about a passion for the moment, a sense that as long as everything is good when they are together, that they choose to be there and everything flows, then nothing else matters.

    The brunette beauty insists she is still besotted with her husband, who she married in 1999, but admits there are times when they don’t get along. “I think he’s sexy. It’s important to go on thinking that about your husband. But Vincent is not a normal man. Sometimes I love him so much, sometimes I want to kill him.”
    [From Monica’s fansite, The London Times, and IOL News]

    I think many Americans view this as a more “European” view of marital fidelity, but it might even be more specific to Vincent and Monica’s two cultures - French and Italian - or even their joint profession, acting. Actor couples get used to being apart from each other for months at a time, and maybe Monica is just being realistic. Or maybe this is just what you have to expect when you marry a Frenchman? I don’t know. All I know is that I might have a shot with Vincent, right? And Monica too!




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    Interesting. I wonder, however, if he expects fidelity from her also.

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    if it works for monica, then that is her decision. wouldn't work for me, though.

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    stupid bitch. greys thinks this guy is hot... hahahahahahaha whatta douche!
    Kill him.
    Kill her.
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    So I wonder if that goes both ways and she can fuck who she wants if he's not around for a couple months. And he'll have the same "elegance" not to expect otherwise?

    This isn't some sophisticated Euro shit. More like good ole fashioned "I'll be with ya when I see ya" open marriage. Though it may not be the norm, there's any number of things that could keep a couple apart (or from being able to have sex) for two months. Ridiculous to expect he won't fuck someone else for a whole two months? I don't think I wanna be in a marriage like that personally.

    Maybe since people write their own vows they could take out that "keeping only unto each other" crap if they're gonna go this route and they know it on the front end. Who am I to knock what people wanna do and claim works? I just can't help thinking eventually this shit will wear thin with one or the other. Maybe when someone gets the drippy crotch or an oopsie baby cha-ching$ its way out of another vajayjay.
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    It's shocking to people who know me, but I believe I would fair better in a relationship that is more open.
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    Well, if they do have an open marriage I have a problem. I don't know which one to hump first.

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    Whoa! Vinnie is available for a night or two? SWEET!!!!!!!!!!!!
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    Quote Originally Posted by sluce View Post
    It's shocking to people who know me, but I believe I would fair better in a relationship that is more open.
    but its got to be open both ways. I ain't 'bout to be in a relationship with a man who can fuck other people but expect me to remain faithful to his ass.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Mel1973 View Post
    but its got to be open both ways. I ain't 'bout to be in a relationship with a man who can fuck other people but expect me to remain faithful to his ass.
    I think as long as the kids look like the guy they're calling dad, it's all good.

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    Strangely enough I kinda understand where Monica is coming from. I don't think it would phase my husband at all if I decided to start banging other men, even though he knows I would never allow him to do it. But luckily, I'm the monogamous type by nature, so its all good.
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    If I ever get married, or be in a long-term relationship, I hope I can have an attitude like hers. I think she makes a good point. You cannot be with someone 24/7/365+ and when you are not with them, you cannot control them or have them still be 110% committed to you.

    If you love someone, set them free. And vice versa.

    She and Vincent are two lucky bitches to have each other.

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    "but more important is confidence, respect, knowing a man is not just loyal in a sex way, but that they will be there for you. That is more important than just fidelity.”
    To me, this seems like a contradictory statement.

    Not to mention that whatever agreement the two might have, they have two small children who probably aren't going to easily process the nuances of this understanding. Like why their dad is being photographed cavorting with some strange woman on a yacht off the coast of Italy.

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    ^^I believe that is where the elegance part comes in. If they see others, without doing so publically, the kids will not know. The lover doesn't have to impede the family.
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    Just the pretense that this arrangement is all elegant and sophisticated is what cracks me up. I know rednecks who work with this same arrangement. It's all good until someone shows up unexpected and walks in on the other banging away. Putting forth the effort to assure stuff like this doesn't happen seems way more trouble than just staying faithful. I mean, how hard is that really? Really? Unless you just can't stand one another anymore.
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