Lindsay Lohan's bodyguard joins the (speaking out) party

[Lily]

Originally Posted by doriangray

wow. so harsh. she's a friggin' kid. i can imagine what it does for the self esteem to be thrown against a car by YOUR FATHER at 16 and called a slut. she was probably sleeping with guys young just to get some affection.

Harsh? Give me a break. My home life--and lots of others--were horrific and gothic, and we didn't grow up to be selfish skanky crackwhores. She's accountable for her own actions. God, I wish people made excuses for me too, but I had to learn that I was culpable for my own decisions.

It's not harsh at all. She needs a good ass-whoopin'.

[doriangray]

Originally Posted by Lily

Harsh? Give me a break. My home life--and lots of others--were horrific and gothic, and we didn't grow up to be selfish skanky crackwhores. She's accountable for her own actions. God, I wish people made excuses for me too, but I had to learn that I was culpable for my own decisions.

It's not harsh at all. She needs a good ass-whoopin'.

yes i'm sure we've all read about your horrible mother and your child hood and how it affected you and has made it difficult for you to form relationships with men. there's more than a couple threads about it. wah wah wah. i think you make enough excuses for yourself.
bottom line: you really don't know shit about her life.

[Chilly Willy]

Don't be unfair, Lily's an orphan, there weren't any threads about her horrible mother, because she has none.

Lilly put herself out there and revealed intimate details about herself and you use it against her to make a point about lindsay Lohan???? Do you feel good about yourself? Was it worth it?

[Lily]

Dorian......I don't even have any words. I just don't. I thought you were better than that.

Yes, I am an orphan. I lost my parents when I was a bit older. My mother was abusive, and now she's gone.

I'm sorry for not giving Lohan some slack. Wah wah wah.

Love,
The Crybaby

Jesus Christ.

[Chilly Willy]

Seriously people, using personal information to put someone down on some gossip thread is low.

It leads to us not being able to talk about what moves us anymore, which is something that makes this board valuable.

Bashing a celebrity is on thing, bashing a real person, a fellow board member is another.

If you can't win an argument without hurting your opponent, you've already lost anyway.

[CherryDarling]

Originally Posted by Chilly Willy

Seriously people, using personal information to put someone down on some gossip thread is low.

It leads to us not being able to talk about what moves us anymore, which is something that makes this board valuable.

Bashing a celebrity is on thing, bashing a real person, a fellow board member is another.

If you can't win an argument without hurting your opponent, you've already lost anyway.

Chilly, have I mentioned that you rock? Very well said.

[carrie2008]

That was a great point to make, Chilly, I agree. Good job!

[doriangray]

Originally Posted by Chilly Willy

Seriously people, using personal information to put someone down on some gossip thread is low.

It leads to us not being able to talk about what moves us anymore, which is something that makes this board valuable.

Bashing a celebrity is on thing, bashing a real person, a fellow board member is another.

If you can't win an argument without hurting your opponent, you've already lost anyway.

oh please. come down off it would you. so lindsay lohan is not a real person? i think a few people need a reality check. i believe my point was when you condemn people constantly eventually you will be condemned. i'm not arguing with anyone so save your thought for the day. i could go on but wha'ever.
sorry Lily honey. it's just something i've noticed.

[lisalucy69]

I'm sorry Lily, that information you felt close enough with us to share was used against you. If most of us had half the chances and opportunity that LiHo has thrown away, we wouldn't have taken them for granted. I'll save my sympathy for people who are going through worse and don't have millions of dollars and a movie role waiting when they get out of rehab. Or for the people who go to real rehab, not cushy celeb rehab where they apparently don't have to really get clean.

[moser]

On a general note: I don't get how people can idolize someone like Johnny Cash, who also went on a similar self-destructive bent, and can't muster any understanding for LL - Cash had June Carter, LL doesn't have that.

[hazel17]

Originally Posted by doriangray

yes i'm sure we've all read about your horrible mother and your child hood and how it affected you and has made it difficult for you to form relationships with men. there's more than a couple threads about it. wah wah wah. i think you make enough excuses for yourself.
bottom line: you really don't know shit about her life.

Samantha Ronson?? Is that you??!



wtf

[Lucky32]

Originally Posted by doriangray

yes i'm sure we've all read about your horrible mother and your child hood and how it affected you and has made it difficult for you to form relationships with men. there's more than a couple threads about it. wah wah wah. i think you make enough excuses for yourself.
bottom line: you really don't know shit about her life.

That was a cheap shot and you know it. It is one thing to disagree with someone about stupid celebrity bullshit, but what you did was just totally uncalled for. I believe you owe Lily an apology.

[Sassiness]

Originally Posted by moser

On a general note: I don't get how people can idolize someone like Johnny Cash, who also went on a similar self-destructive bent, and can't muster any understanding for LL - Cash had June Carter, LL doesn't have that.

Good point

*still in the feeling sorry for La Lohan and wishing she'd grow up camp*

[Voodoo Child]

Hey Lily, I haven't read any of your personal posts about family but it sounds like your a survivor sharing your story here with others. Good for you.

[Picara]

It's low to use personal things written by posters to attack them.

OT: Why was Carrie2008 hit by the ban bus? I just saw her here a minute ago. Odd.