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Old April 25th, 2007, 07:18 AM   #1 (permalink)
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Default Kate Beckinsale likens anorexics to 'crack whores'

Kate Beckinsale likens anorexics to 'crack whores'


Picture of health: But Kate Beckinsale has battled with anorexia



As a former anorexic, Kate Beckinsale knows how easy it can be to succumb to the eating disorder - and how hard it is to fight.

But the British actress was accused of insensitivity when she likened anorexic girls to "crack whores" and said family problems were often to blame, rather than pictures of skinny celebrities.
  • Miss Beckinsale, whose weight once plummeted to five stones, said: "I believe anorexia, alcoholism and drug abuse in teens are more about what is happening in the home than a problem with images in the media.

"It is the nice girl's way of becoming a crack whore."
Miss Beckinsale, 33, was brought up by her mother Judy Loe after her actor father Richard Beckinsale died of a heart attack when she was five.
When she was nine, her mother married director Roy Battersby - a relationship the actress said contributed to her problems in her teens, which culminated in her developing anorexia at 15.
She has previously said: "I was convinced I was going to be relegated, that he would sell the house where I had always lived and it would be awful."
She added: "I got to the stage where I think I was about to die. I had no energy and my main goal was to be able to stand up. Finally I realised I had to choose between being a person or a professional anorexic.
"You can't commit to anything else when your mind is exhausted and homed in on one thing."
There was widespread condemnation of the Underworld Evolution star's remarks.
Ros Ponomarenko-Jones, whose daughter Sophie Mazurek starved herself to four stones before dying last year of heart failure at 19, said she felt "completely insulted".
"She (Beckinsale) has been totally flippant and does not really know what she is talking about," she said. "She is not giving anorexia the status it deserves as a mental illness."
Mrs Ponomarenko-Jones, 47, of Powys, Wales, added: "I think she needs to go an eating disorder unit and speak to some of the girls there, where she would find out it is not always about what is happening in the home.
"They look up to celebrities and if they are thin, the girls take that on board and think if they look skinnier, they will have friends and live better lives. She has been completely irresponsible."
Eating disorder charity Beat warned that anorexia resulted from more deep-rooted problems than the family circumstances and images surrounding teenage girls. A spokesman said: "Anorexia stems from low self-esteem and an inability to cope safely with worries and problems. It is not a diet gone wrong."

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Old April 25th, 2007, 07:26 AM   #2 (permalink)
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"It is the nice girl's way of becoming a crack whore."
there's some truth to that. it's kind of a funny way to put it too
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Old April 25th, 2007, 07:46 AM   #3 (permalink)
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I agree with her. Very good way to explain it. Its the nice girls way of losing control, or seeking attention.
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Old April 25th, 2007, 08:34 AM   #4 (permalink)
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That is an extreme way to look at it. What is the proper definition of a "whore" anyway.
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Old April 25th, 2007, 09:01 AM   #5 (permalink)
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A regular whore is a slave to something, sex or money. He or she has to do it.

Crack whores are slaves to crack. Anorexia whores are slaves to avoiding food and weight.

That is how I see it anyway.

Does that make us gossip whores?
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Old April 25th, 2007, 11:00 AM   #6 (permalink)
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.....**standing in the Gossip Anonymous meeting**.....Hi, my name is Cynic, and I am a gossip whore/addict.........

.....control issues begin in the home........the media stokes the fires......the medical profession makes money from it.....and the "patient/victim" gets the attention they desire.......one sick circle....
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Old April 25th, 2007, 11:28 AM   #7 (permalink)
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GAH, omg.. fix your post
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Old April 25th, 2007, 03:38 PM   #8 (permalink)
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I read about this when she was featured in 'Glamour'...

I actually kind of agree with her.

Personally I believe that eating disorders are mainly stemmed from what goes on in the home/family life of the sufferer...(I'm not saying that the media/skinny size zero stars have nothing to do with it...) but I think families play a BIG part...

I know for me, when I first developed anorexia at fifteen it had NOTHING to do with wanting to be up to par with the rest of the size zero stars or anything like that...it was just me wanting to get 'healthy' and shed a few unneeded pounds...(also during that time I had major family issues going on and many skeletons came out of the closet that summer...) eventually it all just spun out of control and I was officially consumed by both anorexia and bulimia.

It took me years to realize that my family issues DEFINATELY played a huge part in my ED...because then I had no idea what was going on...but now I realize that I just wanted control of something because I felt like I had none and my family was preoccupied with other things and in total denial the whole time...

I pretty much was a 'crack whore' only without the crack...the ED was my drug of choice and it took me to hell and back more than once...

The eerie thing is that I know a ton of people who developed EDs at fifteen, including TWO of my best friends, one was also anorexic and the other had exercise bulimia/anorexic tendencies and the funny thing is that we were all so wrapped up in our own EDs that we didn't even realize we were ALL going through the very same thing at the very same time...(of course I know EDs can develop at ANY age) but I guess the pre-teen/teen years are especially vulnerable...
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A regular whore is a slave to something, sex or money. He or she has to do it.

Crack whores are slaves to crack. Anorexia whores are slaves to avoiding food and weight.
A whore has sex in exchange for goods or money. A crack whore f*cks for crack or money to buy crack. So, anorexics are f*cking to not eat? I don't really see the comparision. Now, saying anorexics are like crackheads I can understand.
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^ I know the defintion of whore. A word can have a connotation that is not the same as the definition.

Crack whore- addicted to crack, leading to the f*cking for crack.

Whore in this connotation is a monkey on the back. Crack whores have the crack monkey. Whore is doing the f*cking to get something. That is the monkey.

I can see what she meant. She could have said it differently, but I get it.
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I read about this when she was featured in 'Glamour'...

I actually kind of agree with her.

Personally I believe that eating disorders are mainly stemmed from what goes on in the home/family life of the sufferer...(I'm not saying that the media/skinny size zero stars have nothing to do with it...) but I think families play a BIG part...

I know for me, when I first developed anorexia at fifteen it had NOTHING to do with wanting to be up to par with the rest of the size zero stars or anything like that...it was just me wanting to get 'healthy' and shed a few unneeded pounds...(also during that time I had major family issues going on and many skeletons came out of the closet that summer...) eventually it all just spun out of control and I was officially consumed by both anorexia and bulimia.

It took me years to realize that my family issues DEFINATELY played a huge part in my ED...because then I had no idea what was going on...but now I realize that I just wanted control of something because I felt like I had none and my family was preoccupied with other things and in total denial the whole time...

I pretty much was a 'crack whore' only without the crack...the ED was my drug of choice and it took me to hell and back more than once...

The eerie thing is that I know a ton of people who developed EDs at fifteen, including TWO of my best friends, one was also anorexic and the other had exercise bulimia/anorexic tendencies and the funny thing is that we were all so wrapped up in our own EDs that we didn't even realize we were ALL going through the very same thing at the very same time...(of course I know EDs can develop at ANY age) but I guess the pre-teen/teen years are especially vulnerable...

MoodyJenny i really hope you have overcome your problems and are ok now. I am just cumming through a similar situation . Ive lost alot of weight over the past year due to family problems and stress (mainly due to the fact i was worried about starting university last year). But ive got my freshman year out of the way and enjoying life and i have started to eat regualry so its all good.

I agree with Kate not everyone with an ED is obsessed with being a size 0. Its all about taking conrol of an aspect in your life when everything else seems so out of control. I certainly have never wanted to be skinny as nicole richie and i don't look up to or worship any of these celebs.
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Thats interesting..i agree with her . But i know personally anorexia is from lack of control. So you control your food, weight. But ironically teh anorexic is spinning totally out of control. Its a way of putting what the person is feeling on the inside to the outside. Sorry to get preachy..just kinda a touchy subject.
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Revelling, I get what both you and Kate are saying. I just bristle at the thought of equating an addiction with being a whore. While many crack addicts are whores not all whores are crack addicts. I think calling anorexics crackwhores is kind of unfair to whores. That's all.


I know I sound like a crazy person, but please humor me anyway and pretend I'm making sense.
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MoodyJenny i really hope you have overcome your problems and are ok now. I am just cumming through a similar situation . Ive lost alot of weight over the past year due to family problems and stress (mainly due to the fact i was worried about starting university last year). But ive got my freshman year out of the way and enjoying life and i have started to eat regualry so its all good.

I agree with Kate not everyone with an ED is obsessed with being a size 0. Its all about taking conrol of an aspect in your life when everything else seems so out of control. I certainly have never wanted to be skinny as nicole richie and i don't look up to or worship any of these celebs.
Thank you for your kind words sharon_b.

Admittedly, it's hard. I was fifteen when I first developed my ED...I'm almost 21 now and it's still with me...it never goes away. I think it will always be with me but you know, I'm doing the best I can.

Anyways, I am glad to hear that you are doing well! I am glad you are enjoying life...that's the way to be!
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