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    Y! SPORTS Steubenville High School football players found guilty of raping 16-year-old girl

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    Ma'lik Richmond, center, reacts as the verdict for his and Trent Mays' rape trial is delivered. (Reuters)
    "Inside a small Steubenville, Ohio, courtroom filled with sobbing and exhausting emotion, Judge Thomas Lipps found Trent Mays and Ma'lik Richmond guilty Sunday of raping an intoxicated 16-year-old girl. Lipps sentenced both defendants to a minimum of one year in a youth correctional institute with the determination for a longer sentence coming from child-service experts.
    Mays received an additional year for transmission of nude photos, to be served after his rape sentence is completed. Mays and Richmond also will have to register as sex offenders for the rest of their lives.
    "It provides a great incentive to do well," said Lipps, who could have ordered Mays and Richmond to remain behind bars until they turned 21.
    Mays, 17, and Richmond, 16, both wept, at times uncontrollably, as the verdict was announced. Mays buried his head in a handkerchief as defense attorneys rubbed his back. He later hugged his parents goodbye.
    Richmond was able to stand and approach the victim's family and deliver a tearful apology before breaking down into the arms of court manager Fred Adballa Jr.
    "I'm sorry," Richmond said through gasps and cries, "for putting you guys through this. I'm sorry."
    [Related: Steubenville rape trial divides Ohio town]
    Later, Richmond's biological father, Nathaniel, also addressed the court and the victim's family, placing some of the blame for his son's actions on his own life troubles and being an absentee father.
    "Everyone knows I wasn't there for my son," Nathaniel Richmond said. "I feel responsible for his actions. I feel highly responsible for his actions."
    The five-day trial of Mays and Richmond for the August 2012 rape of the West Virginia girl, who had come across the Ohio River for a night of partying, engulfed this old mill town in the eastern part of the state. Both boys are members of the high-profile and historically successful Big Red football team at Steubenville High School, which serves as a point of pride for the city dealing with economic hardship after the collapse of the steel industry.
    Trent Mays, left, gets a hug from his father after Trent was found guilty of rape. (AP)Put in the spotlight was the local football team, which, critics said, allowed players to brazenly operate seemingly above the law for years. Social-media accounts, self-made videos, photos and classless text messages exposed an entire world that seemed like a Hollywood script of a high school team out of control.
    It also exposed a teenage culture of weak ethics, rampant alcohol abuse and poor family structures that wound up dooming Mays and Richmond, both of whom had promising futures and no criminal past.
    After the verdict, Nathaniel Richmond approached the defense table and held his son for a prolonged period. According to defense attorney Walter Madison – who was overcome with tears for what he said was the first time in his legal career – the elder Richmond told his son he loved him.
    "I knew he realized he loved him, but he never told him [before]," Madison said. "So it took this."
    It took this for a lot of things to come to light.
    Rape, experts say, is a crime of power and control more than sex. Underlying all of that is arrogance, and in Steubenville it was taken to the extreme.
    Throughout this trial, the two defendants and a parade of friends who wound up mostly testifying against the defendants, expressed little understanding of rape – let alone common decency or respect for women. Despite the conviction, the defendants likely don't view themselves as rapists, at least not the classic sense of a man hiding in the shadows.
    [Related: Opening day of Steubenville rape trial focuses on key photo of girl]
    "It wasn't violent," explained teammate Evan Westlake when asked why he didn't stop the two defendants as they abused a non-moving girl that Westlake knew to be highly intoxicated. "I always pictured it as forcing yourself on someone."
    That was part of the arrogance.
    Arrogance from the defendants. Arrogance from the friends. Arrogance within the culture.
    Arrogance based on the fact that this night, witnesses testified over and over, wasn't strikingly different than any other night in the life of a Big Red football player.
    The boys drank. They drove around. They went to each other's houses until 2, 3, 4 in the morning. They exploited permissive parents who let the party continue. They, according to so many locals, knew there were bars that would serve them, liquor stores that would supply them and adults who would look the other way. They were football players being football players.
    They slept wherever and whenever they crashed, preferably with some girl. Any girl.
    They were allowed the freedoms of young adults, yet lacked the maturity to handle that freedom.
    "The entitlement we heard during testimony, it didn't seem like any empathy or support for the victim," said Katie Hanna, statewide director of the Ohio Alliance to End Sexual Violence. "To see these things happen and to say, 'I don't recall; I didn't think it was a bad thing; I just thought this was OK.' It suggests that this was commonplace behavior."
    [Related: Focus of Steubenville trial shifts to teens' text messages]
    Two protesters hug after hearing the verdict in the trial of Mays and Richmond. (Reuters)It's not that these kids were pure evil. Far from it. Most were headed to college or the military. They appeared presentable. Richmond, who came from a troubled family background, had seemingly turned the corner. As a sophomore about to be a starter on the varsity, his future was bright.
    "Everything he was working to get away from, he was headed in [the right] direction," said Madison, his attorney.
    In some actions, this was obvious. In others, it clearly was not. It was that way for everyone, charged or not.
    At one point of the night of the incident, Westlake, who was sober, determined that his friend Mark Cole was too drunk to make a 10-minute drive home. At first, Cole refused to turn over his keys, claiming he could operate his Volkswagen Jetta just fine. Westlake was undeterred, though, eventually "tricking" Cole by waiting for him to relax and then forcibly seizing the keys.
    Yet maybe a half-hour later, Westlake walked in on the girl, sprawled out naked in the middle of a basement floor. To her side was Mays, exposed and slapping his penis on the girl's hip. Behind her was Richmond, who, Westlake said, was violating her with two fingers.
    Westlake said goodbye to the guys and kept walking. A good friend with his eye on the safety of others just minutes before was suddenly unaware or unsure of what to do – or simply uncaring enough to do anything at all.
    "Something has gotten in there that said, 'OK, we need to prevent drinking and driving,' " Hanna said. "We need to take it to that level with preventing sexual assault."
    Earlier in the night, the girl sat in the middle of the street in front of one of the player's homes, leaning over slightly and puking. She was a mess, in need of significant help. One of the boys – no one recalls who exactly – took her shirt off so she wouldn't stain it, but then left her sitting there in just shorts and a bra.
    Soon, a group of the teenagers were laughing at the girl and her sorry state. One kid, Patrick Pizzoferrato, pulled out $3 and said he'd give it to anyone who urinated on her.
    "I made it as a joke," Pizzoferrato testified. "… I don't think anyone thought I was serious when I said that."
    It stands to reason that Pizzoferrato was being truthful. No one took him up on it. After a night of partying, surrounded by friends, never assuming that whatever he said would wind up in the center of a closely followed criminal proceeding, Pizzoferrato was making a crude and immature joke. He's a high school kid. They aren't known for tact.
    Yet along with the joke came nothing else. No one thought to get the girl real help, to call her friends, to take her home, to assure she was safe and watched. She was just another drunk chick to be mocked, scooped up and used.
    [Related: Did conviction in Steubenville trial come at a cost?]
    Within minutes, Mays was fondling her in the backseat of a crowded car while his buddy Cole filmed the act on his cell phone.
    Arrogance? Arrogance is looking at a girl in desperate need of help, looking at a friend who was committing an obvious felony and deciding what the moment called for was an impromptu porn shoot.

    It also was this colossal arrogance that doomed the defendants and everyone involved. The hubris of their high school good life causing a downfall that will be felt – even by those who escaped prosecution – for a lifetime.
    Mays, 17, was also found guilty of transmission of nude photos of the 16-year-old girl. (AP)The girl testified she woke up with no recollection of what happened. It wasn't until she began hearing the chatter on social media and eventually saw a picture of herself just after the incident that she believed she'd been attacked.
    Had nothing been said, shot or sent, this would've been just another night, like sadly so many anywhere in America with a confused girl wondering what really happened.
    Instead, this group of teens, so full of an overabundance of self worth, filmed and documented the crime, perhaps never assuming anyone would see it for what it was.
    They basically told the victim about it. Their friends essentially took real-time crime-scene photos for the cops. Of course, this was only possible because Mays and Richmond were more than comfortable committing the crime right in front of witnesses in the first place.
    Mays, in particular, essentially confessed to the crime via hundreds of text messages over the next few days – ranging from profound bravado in the immediate aftermath, to matter-of-fact statements the next day, to a panicked attempted cover-up and witness control as reality began to set in.
    Mays all but wrote out the prosecution's closing arguments.
    Yes, this was extreme arrogance. The arrogance to not just joke and brag like the teenage boys they were, but to commit those jokes to text messages, to snap a photo of the girl being carried out like she was a casualty coming off a battle field. Even guys who weren't there sat around a basement laughing about how "the dead girl" was "so raped."
    [Related: Victim testifies during fourth day of Steubenville rape trial]
    The arrogance to assume everyone else would think like them, to take outlandish jokes told in private and put them on YouTube for everyone to see. It's one thing to say something stupid. It's another to promote it to the world.
    Only, they later found out – harshly – that the rest of the world didn't find it such a laughing matter.

    Steubenville has a long and colorful history of organized crime, an Appalachian river town full of gambling, booze and bootlegging, of corrupt politicians and crooked union bosses thriving through the decades.
    The Big Red players were disorganized crime. No secrets. No code words. No shame. They neither grasped the depth of the crime nor the unrelenting pressure of true authority – not their compliant parents or ball coach, but a legal system that didn't care a whit about Steubenville High football.
    Steubenville's football program has long been a source of pride in the community. (Reuters)For all the rumors and speculation around town of cover-ups and favoritism being played, the authorities did their job. There is zero indication the Steubenville police did anything but aggressively and swiftly investigate the charges.
    When understandable conflicts of interest – only 18,000 people live in the city and everyone knows everyone – arose in the local prosecutors office, the case was handed over to the state's attorney general out of Columbus. A judge was brought in from across the state, near Cincinnati. And it was Judge Lipps, not anyone around Steubenville, who granted immunity to the witnesses.
    Meanwhile, attorney general Mike DeWine called on Sunday for a grand jury to continue an investigation into the case.
    "This community desperately needs to have this behind them," DeWine said. "But this community also desperately needs to know justice was done and that no stone was left unturned."
    It's still hard to say if Mays and Richmond ever grasped the trouble they were in until Sunday.
    Mays knew enough to grow concerned. The girl was never sure whether to press charges, but once her parents found out, there would be no doubt. They culled social media for clues and walked into the Steubenville Police Department with a flash drive of evidence.
    Just prior to that, Mays became panicked and texted the girl.
    "I'm about to get kicked off my football team," Mays wrote.
    "The more you bring up football, the more pissed I get," the girl wrote back. "Because that's like all you care about."
    Trent Mays and Ma'lik Richmond were soon arrested after that text exchange. Legendary coach Reno Saccoccia couldn't help them now. The power of Big Red, their families' good names, their otherwise clean pasts and strong futures, meant nothing.
    A culture of arrogance created a group mindset of debauchery and disrespect, of misplaced manhood and lost morality.
    Drunk on their own small-town greatness, they operated unaware of common decency until they went too far, wrote too much, bragged too many times and, finally, on a cold Sunday morning, were hauled out of a small third-floor courtroom as a couple of common criminals.
    Their ride to the Scioto Juvenile Correctional Facility was waiting for them out back, two floors down, out in the real world. "



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    Having a seriously shitty time trying to post things today so sorry if the previous post looks crazy. Eff these little assholes. The sentence was far too light as far as I'm concerned. And so many people are sympathizing with them and blaming the victim. Oh no.. they'll be labeled as "sex offenders". Good.. that's what they are. This is what happens when HS Athletes are looked at as "too big too fail". Disgusting.
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    I can't believe they only got a year. That's fucked up.
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    This case really pisses me off and makes me sick.

    These kids got way too light of a sentence legally - but their names, faces and actions will always be on record through the media coverage of this event. They will never be able to escape it. Good.

    If I was a parent of one of the boys involved - there is no way I could ever stand by my kid. They would be dead to me. I would have to take a long, hard look at why I was such a failure as a parent.

    The disregard for the girl - treating her like an object for their own amusement, the lack of empathy and the fact that no one protected her - is chilling. No one stopped anything. The most important thing was getting all the action on film. I am sure episodes like this happen every day in America - this one was just "lucky" to be discovered because of all the photos/videos/texts taken and shared. Law enforcement had to be pushed to bring this case forward - because of the public outcry after what happened was discovered through social media.

    I think there should be many more prosecutions to come - the kids who watched and filmed what happened, the adults who bought the kids liquor, the adults who lived in the houses where the parties were thrown, teachers and coaches who tried to cover things up, and anyone else who knowingly facilitated the situation. It would (hopefully) set an example to others that this is not acceptable in our society and if you can't know in your heart to do the right thing, then you'll have to learn it through the legal system.
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    Public Shaming - Page 1 of 13

    Some of the stuff on that site makes me so pissed off, I just can't even put into words. Some people are just scum.
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    Our culture glorifies athletes too much, and it starts in high school.
    Meanwhile, the war on women continues...even in the US where it's not supposed to be happening.
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    It's disgusting. Small town, sports-is-king mentality. These kids were trained to think that they were untouchable, that nothing they did wouldn't be covered by the school and/or their coaches. And, it WOULD have been. Nothing like implicating yourself with texts, videos and photos. They should have been tried as adults; they knew exactly what they were doing and thought it was funny.

    "It wasn't violent," explained teammate Evan Westlake when asked why he didn't stop the two defendants as they abused a non-moving girl that Westlake knew to be highly intoxicated. "I always pictured it as forcing yourself on someone."
    That was part of the arrogance.
    Arrogance from the defendants. Arrogance from the friends. Arrogance within the culture.
    Arrogance based on the fact that this night, witnesses testified over and over, wasn't strikingly different than any other night in the life of a Big Red football player.
    The boys drank. They drove around. They went to each other's houses until 2, 3, 4 in the morning. They exploited permissive parents who let the party continue. They, according to so many locals, knew there were bars that would serve them, liquor stores that would supply them and adults who would look the other way. They were football players being football players.
    They slept wherever and whenever they crashed, preferably with some girl. Any girl.
    They were allowed the freedoms of young adults, yet lacked the maturity to handle that freedom.
    "The entitlement we heard during testimony, it didn't seem like any empathy or support for the victim," said Katie Hanna, statewide director of the Ohio Alliance to End Sexual Violence. "To see these things happen and to say, 'I don't recall; I didn't think it was a bad thing; I just thought this was OK.' It suggests that this was commonplace behavior."
    How much other casual, accepted behavior wasn't reported? I am betting way more than this.
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    Just read that the victim is receiving threats now. It's crazy.

    I do not want to be flamed for this, I am hoping to start a serious discussion, but these are 2 young boys. They were also drunk at the time. We excuse girls who get drunk and put themselves in vunerable positions. Do boys get any wiggle room for also being drunk? Why are they held to a higher standard for not making good decisions when they are drunk? I've often thought that I am glad I am not raising a son because it seems they are held to a different standard and I've seen a few cases where girls had regret in the morning and blamed the boy.

    In this specific case, I am glad the boys were found guilty. I also feel bad for them because they are victims of a mentality that told them they were above it all. It started with their parents. It started with their coaches. It started with the community members who told them they were Gods for playing football. I haven't seen anything yet to show that this mentality will change as too many community members are still saying it was just boys being boys.
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    I won't flame you, sluce, and I kind of agree, which is why I think the sentences were fair - they're going to juvie, not adult prison. And will be out by the time they are 21 so still young and they can still make something of themselves. To be honest, I think that if enough years go by and they've stayed out of trouble, they should also have the possibility of having their names removed for the sex offender registry. They're 16. I do think rehabilitation is possible and that they can grow up and learn from their mistakes...
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    Quote Originally Posted by sluce View Post
    I do not want to be flamed for this, I am hoping to start a serious discussion, but these are 2 young boys. They were also drunk at the time. We excuse girls who get drunk and put themselves in vunerable positions. Do boys get any wiggle room for also being drunk? Why are they held to a higher standard for not making good decisions when they are drunk? I've often thought that I am glad I am not raising a son because it seems they are held to a different standard and I've seen a few cases where girls had regret in the morning and blamed the boy.
    A girl putting herself in a vulnerable position isn't hurting anyone else, though. Yes, drunk people of both sexes do stupid things all the time, but they don't all do violent, hurtful, disrespectful, illegal, awful things. I don't think "don't rape" is too high a standard to hold anyone to.

    Sluce, I hope that doesn't sound too snarky; I know you're not apologizing for these boys and I'm just trying to answer honestly. That's basically what it comes down to for me. We may excuse some of the choices girls make when they're intoxicated, but those choices... aren't like these ones.

    eta: I do agree that it seems like rehabilitation may be possible for these guys in the future, and I would certainly hope for that.
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    I think it takes a special kind of evil to do what they did. I truly hope that they can be rehabilitated.
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    I have boys and there is NO WAY I would ever excuse such behavior, but then I would never have allowed my boys to run that wild in the first place. These kids were not guided or reined in at all by any adults around them. Both of my boys play football, but they sure as hell aren't running around til 3 in the morning, getting drunk and acting like fools. They earn all of their privileges unlike these self-entitled brats. They deserve juvie and should have been sentenced to at least 3 years each, not just one.

    I do hope these kids can be rehabilitated, but I'm unsure. people really don't grow out of a sense of entitlement in my experience.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Tati View Post
    A girl putting herself in a vulnerable position isn't hurting anyone else, though. Yes, drunk people of both sexes do stupid things all the time, but they don't all do violent, hurtful, disrespectful, illegal, awful things. I don't think "don't rape" is too high a standard to hold anyone to.
    I agree. That's the gist of it to me.
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    There seems to be some weird culture of sexual cruelty among sports teams, especially football teams. I feel like I am constantly reading about football team members performing sexual assaults on other males as part of some hazing ritual, or committing sexual assaults on women during drunken revelries. In some cases, sex may not even be the point as much as humiliating someone who couldn't hold their alcohol and passed out drunk. This includes shaving them, writing on them, posing in sexual ways with them.

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    Quote Originally Posted by MohandasKGanja View Post
    There seems to be some weird culture of sexual cruelty among sports teams, especially football teams. I feel like I am constantly reading about football team members performing sexual assaults on other males as part of some hazing ritual, or committing sexual assaults on women during drunken revelries. In some cases, sex may not even be the point as much as humiliating someone who couldn't hold their alcohol and passed out drunk. This includes shaving them, writing on them, posing in sexual ways with them.
    This is very true and happened to my older boy's team early in the season this year. They have some goofy thing where they "act gay" with each other, but a couple of the boys did it to a boy who is actually gay. The school came down hard on them, even though they were just playing around. Unfortunately, one of the boys who got in trouble lost his football scholarship to CSU because of it. He has to do a super-senior year to earn his scholarship back.
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