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The husband this scenario: He's an asshole. And a pussy. And how fucked up is it that all his "friends" are blaming his wife.
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Ok, this happened in the next town from us. The mother of my DD's skating friend was the best friend of the woman killed. She (a psychologist) says that this 'emasculating' bit is complete BS and that the police had been called to the house on more than one occasion for domestic violence on the part of the husband. It makes me so mad when they blame the victim.
A friend of mine is married to a creep like that and she is trying to get a divorce (not nearly hard enough in my opinion. They still live together 'for the kids', and every morning I am glad she is still alive.
He sends her the weirdest messages, like 'I wanted to help you, if you only would have let me' Always in past tense. Always knew where she was so we suspect he put spyware on her phone, reporting her to the child protective offices because she lets them watch porn (she doesn't) and if he thinks that, why doesn't he leave???
We keep on saying 'Move out now, take the kids"! but she hesitates because 'It will kill him and the kids will go mad'. 'Hello, he will kill you if you do not get out'.
a friend once told me about an old college friend of hers back in the states who actually suspected her husband of trying to poison her. they have an absolutely awful relationship, 2 or 3 kids. anyway, she said her coffee (which he always prepares) had been tasting weird for months. but she kept drinking it. she even saved a dirty cup once and put it in a ziploc to get it tested. my friend moved back to the states and i never found out if he was trying to kill her and if she ever got the cup tested (but now i'm curious again, i should email her to find out) but she said she didn't want to leave him because she didn't want her kids growing up in a broken home. she was totally psycho too - her dad abused her as a kid, along with 2 of her 3 sisters. the mother knew and didn't do anything. when she finally confronted her father about the abuse, the rest of her family turned against her - including the 2 sisters who were also abused. she eventually reconciled with her family and at one point, even went to live with them and her husband and kids. told my friend she didn't think her father would abuse her kids because they're boys and he's into girls.
anyhoo, while i get that these women have a lot of baggage and past abuse and they're fucked up and all that, i still have a hard time feeling any sympathy when they do fucked up shit like this that is only going to fuck their own kids up for life. if you're this damaged, you really should do future generations a favour and not have any kids of your own. fine if you want to have a sick relationship with an abusive bastard or make nice with your paedophile dad, but don't bring any children into it.
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Sounds like the guy's friends are trying to get out in front of the issue and do everything possible to make it look like the dead wife's fault. Especially if it's true that he was the one who did the actual abusing - try and "beat" her friends and family to the media.
Abused spouses usually only kill the abuser - very rarely do they kill the kids. They're usually trying to get the kids out of that situation into safety.
I figure the friends probably heard him complain for months or years about 'the wife.' In their minds, they probably thought their friend was just like them, and imagined themselves in the same position with their wives complaining about them and always finding them lacking. Let's say they are just regular guys, kind of idiots but not pathological--they probably filtered everything their friend told them through their own filter.
I know I'm probably not explaining this well, but I think it's pretty typical. The vast majority of men would never, ever harm their spouses, but most can imagine getting really angry at a spouse. In their minds they may think their friend got angry and snapped. When in reality it takes a really fucked up person to kill a spouse, much less their own children. If you're not that fucked up yourself it's probably even hard to imagine what it is like to be that fucked up.
I hope this guy is frying somewhere for what he's done.
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