Breast reduction surgery

**effie2** · May 13th, 2011, 03:47 PM

You seriously need to slow down,dont you think you re able to do what you used to.
It will take time,you need to look after yourself MORE,you just listen to me.(says the idiot who thought spring cleaning the house was a good idea and ended up on her back with vertigo)

**stef** · May 14th, 2011, 05:33 AM

i've just catched up on the whole thread. i really hope you're feeling better today lynnie.

**Beeyotch** · May 14th, 2011, 10:02 PM

Lynnie, hope you're taking it easy and feeling better! You take care of everyone else but you gotta take care of you first!

**LynnieD** · May 16th, 2011, 10:28 AM

Pulled a bunch of stitches on my left breast....I am SO OVER THIS SHIT. OVER ALL OF IT. The pain and the bullshit. I am extremely frustrated by it all.

And please do not tell me to get a sitter--when was the last time you have tried to find a sitter for 2 kids on short notice? EXACTLY. They are in school--or not available. It isn't nearly as easy as it sounds.

GOD I AM FRUSTRATED. And tired. And angry. And sick of being in pain.

I don't know what to do....I seriously don't. I am just at my wits end with all this.

Rant over. Thanks for listening...

**fgg** · May 16th, 2011, 10:31 AM

Originally Posted by LynnieD

And please do not tell me to get a sitter--when was the last time you have tried to find a sitter for 2 kids on short notice? EXACTLY. They are in school--or not available. It isn't nearly as easy as it sounds.

sorry lynnie

if you can't get a sitter, are there any day care centers around that you can drop the kids off for a few hours? the kids would probably think it was fun to hang out with some new kids and play.

**AliceInWonderland** · May 16th, 2011, 10:52 AM

im sorry too, i wish i had a better answer for you

**MontanaMama** · May 16th, 2011, 10:59 AM

I'm sorry you're having such a rough time, Lynnie. I wish this were easier for you. Any chance the in-laws can have an after school activity with the wee ones to give you bit of a respite? I know how easy it is for all of us to tell you to take it easy, but I also know you have a life that needs to be lived. Big hugs and hope that day gets better!

**AliceInWonderland** · May 16th, 2011, 11:02 AM

I hope it gets better too real fast, are you healing ok besides the stitches coming apart? I didn't know stitches were so easy to pull! that sounds really awful and painful, I wish there was something we could do or say to ease everything for you

**MsChiff** · May 16th, 2011, 11:08 AM

^I feel the same way.. we'd love to help.

**january** · May 16th, 2011, 05:10 PM

Jesus, I'm so sorry I can't do anything to help. I totally would. How is the vomiting, has that returned? I'm really hoping and praying that you start feeling better ASAP.

**Laurent** · May 16th, 2011, 05:35 PM

Lynnie, I'm sorry. I wish I could do something to help you. If I didn't live clear across the country from you, I would be there in a nanosecond. I pray that this gets better for you immediately and you get some relief.

**A*O** · May 16th, 2011, 06:54 PM

Stop being Super Mom and TELL (not ask) your husband/inlaws you need some help while you heal or you'll end up back in hospital. I'm frankly amazed they are being so clueless. Ripping out stiches means you are overdoing it. This was major surgery and it takes time to convalesce properly.

**McJag** · May 16th, 2011, 10:13 PM

Originally Posted by LynnieD

Pulled a bunch of stitches on my left breast....I am SO OVER THIS SHIT. OVER ALL OF IT. The pain and the bullshit. I am extremely frustrated by it all.

And please do not tell me to get a sitter--when was the last time you have tried to find a sitter for 2 kids on short notice? EXACTLY. They are in school--or not available. It isn't nearly as easy as it sounds.

GOD I AM FRUSTRATED. And tired. And angry. And sick of being in pain.

I don't know what to do....I seriously don't. I am just at my wits end with all this.

Rant over. Thanks for listening...

Lynnie. I did not mean an ordinary baby sitter! Please type in "home helpers" in your search. A list of non medical helpers should come right up. Call them. You have to rest. I do not know why this is happening to you. It is not fair and you deserve far better! I could just weep. You MUST rest,rest,rest.
If you want me to find someone for you, pm me.
I wish all of us were nearby you! We could send Alice to run errands while Effie, Beeyotch and I could boss you around. Everyone else could cook things, arrange flowers and when you wake up we would all giggle.
I am so sorry you have to go through this!!

**VenusInFauxFurs** · May 16th, 2011, 10:17 PM

Holy crap. I wish I lived closer. I'd clean, cook for you and drink all the vodka you can't drink. I'm so sorry that you're going through this mess. I hope you get better soon.

**dexter7** · May 17th, 2011, 07:47 AM

please let mcjag help you find someone who can really help you! you have to put yourself first right now, it's the best thing you can do for your family.