Don't Shoot the Messenger
Which famous rock wife told her 12-year-old daughter, who came down to breakfast one morning in a snit, "Young lady, you go back upstairs and smoke a joint, and don't come down again until you're in a better mood"?
http://www.nydailynews.com/news/col/widdicombe/
Well, the first name that came to mind is Sharon Osbourne, but maybe Courtney Love??