Men’s Brazilian Wax
By: Iron Man (View Profile)
After reading the recent buzz about the increasing number of men obtaining these treatments, I had to write in about my experiences. I have been “getting waxed” for several months now. My first treatment was a “simple” back waxing. What was I thinking?! My wife had grown weary of trimming and shaving my back so I opted to give waxing a try. Yes, it was painful. Yes, I went back for more. The second back waxing I experienced hurt almost as much as the first. So how did I go from the back to the Brazilian?
Well, during this time I continued to shave my genital areas. The more I shaved the more tedious the process became. To make a long story short, I became tired of spending hours in the bathroom with a razor and decided to give the Brazilian waxing a try. I found two local spas that offered this service for men. I made my appointment at the one with the lowest cost. During my first trip, I was rather nervous. After all, I was going to be getting naked in front of a stranger and she was going to be placing hot wax on my most intimate parts! She was very professional and explained the procedure thoroughly. I opted to have a “boy short” area done—that is, from my waist to just below my butt cheeks. She removed all hair in this area. The funny thing was that it was not as painful as getting my back done. I had entirely expected this to be more painful than a back waxing—especially in the scrotal area. It wasn’t. In fact, it hurt considerably less than having my back waxed. It took almost two hours to get the entire procedure completed. The most embarrassing part was slipping back and forth from an erection to a completely flaccid state. She remained professional and assured me that it was completely “natural.”
Well, an even bigger surprise awaited us both. When she was just about finished with the entire procedure, she started with the back side doing my butt, inner cheeks, perineum, etc, and moved to the front—I ejaculated. This is not what I expected. Again, she remained professional and called it “natural.”
I thanked her and got dressed. After paying for the procedure, she instructed me to exfoliate often and to call for my next appointment in about six weeks. And that is about how long it took for the hair to re-grow—six weeks. I called for another appointment and continued to visit her about every six to eight weeks for quite a while.
After several months, I began to rethink spending so much money on such a vain procedure. I must say, however, that being hair free “down there” adds to the sexual experience and intimacy with my wife. I’ve grown to enjoy the smooth skin and extra sensations I feel without the hair. I did take a break from waxing and shaved for about six weeks. It didn’t take very long for me to become tired of this time-consuming activity again and nicking myself sure didn’t help make shaving a viable option.
When I decided to return for my most recent waxing, I phoned a different studio/spa. I wanted to see if they did anything differently. Yes, they did! When I went there, I was greeted not by one aesthetician, but by two! Now I was going to be getting naked in front of two women instead of just one. I knew what to expect pain-wise, but was still a bit anxious being sprawled out on the table with one of them on each side. They remained thoroughly professional as well. I was very pleased with my latest experience as the pain was considerably less than before. With two of them working, it took only forty-five minutes to remove all the hair from my waist to below my cheeks and everywhere in between. Though the experience is not sensual or sexual at all, I must say it was interesting having one woman hold my “junk” while the other yanked the hair off! I did become erect during this procedure and did ejaculate; however, they assured me it was not a problem and that it was common.
Knowing that I can have this procedure done in forty-five minutes has me hooked on staying hair free. My wife is okay with me lying there naked with two other women simply because it is not a sexual experience.
I am hooked at being hair-free as it increases my experience with my wife. I decided to write this article to encourage any men who may be considering this procedure. There is some pain involved; there is no doubt about that. The payoff is worth the investment though. And, ladies, if your man expects you to be hair-free, it is only fair for them to be willing to provide you with the same. I haven’t convinced my wife to get waxed yet but she does remained shaved for me.
I continue to express interest in her waxing and think that once she does she’ll be hooked. No one should let their fear of pain discourage them, and no one should let their fear of being nude around strangers stop them from getting this done. For the professionals, it is like being a doctor. It is a procedure—nothing more and nothing less. For those of us who get waxed, it is a pathway to pleasure with those we love most. I highly recommend waxing to everyone and hope that this has helped to answer questions and relieve anxiety. Happy waxing!