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    So, i guess i am really naive about some things. I used to pride myself on having a bush that i had never waxed or shaved. I think i saw myself as being 'superior' for not having a bikini line (and i didn't, just a nice luxurious pelt).

    A boyfriend i had 10 years ago offered to trim me and i went along with it. I had no idea at the time that this was something i was supposed to do on my own. I suppose i clued in, because i started regular maintenance, consisting of haircuts and plucking of the bikini line. I have never been waxed in any way, and i have never shaved myself completely bald.Now, after reading the "i'm so humiliated" thread which completely devolved into a pubic hair discussion, i am honestly looking for advice/opinions.

    What is the bare (pun intended) standard i should maintain? Do i shave the whole outer labia up to the bunghole? How do you even do that? Should i have a small triangle, a landing strip, what? Is it really more sensitive in the "licking place" if you are bald? Is it possible that the men i have been with are wondering what is my problem? I have never had anyone else suggest changes, nor have i had anyone who didn't come back for more.

    Looking for honest opinions and advice.

    I know it's all my choice, but i sort of want to get a gander of what's the norm.

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    T13nif, honestly, you seem to be worrying too much about this.

    Do what you want to do, not what men expect or desire. I find when bald, I am more sensitive when receiving oral sex, but it's a personal thing.

    I can't believe I am sharing that but xxx

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    The 'norm' is what mother nature gave you and if you have a naturally low maintenance bush then count your blessing and don't get sucked (!) into this nonsense about having a bald hoohah. It might be attractive to saddo guys whose only 'experience' with women is wacking off to porno magazines and movies but normal blokes really don't care. Trust me.
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    i don't like the look of hairless bush but i admit it's a nicer sensation during sex when i don't have hair. what i do is get waxed and have pretty much everything 'from outer labia to bunghole', as you put it , waxed off, and leave a natural looking triangle/patch in front that gets waxed around the edges.
    as for what men like, honestly, i've never met a guy that expected a bald shaved pussy. i think as long as you trim regularly and the hair isn't so long that it actually gets, uh, in the way, they don't really care. and if i ever stumbled upon an asshole that expected a hairless pussy i wouldn't be embarrassed, i'd be pissed off.
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    I trim the length and have just recently started waxing "around the edges". I shaved the edges/outer labia previously, but I MUCH prefer the result of waxing, though the process is a pain. I leave a pretty natural triangle above and basically just remove anything that would protrude from a bathing suit (I actually swim on my lunch hours). And honestly, if I'm not swimming I will let it slide at times between waxes and my husband really doesn't give a damn.

    I do feel a little sexier when neater and I don't have a completely wild bush even when I let things slide, but ultimately, I agree with AO, most men just really don't care. They might have their preferences, but I mean, they all know hair grows there naturally, so in the debate over "how much to remove" we're really just splitting hairs. BWAHAHAHA!
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    I vote for triangles ...
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    ^ I like the triangle too. I don't find the rectangular landing strip very flattering, on me anyway.
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    Thanks so much guys! OK, i have a question about waxing---isn't that really intimate? How does a waxer get into all the nooks and crannies? Do they wax your cornhole? I don't know if i could handle the embarassment.

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    Cornhole, bunghole... You crack me up. And to answer your question they get closer than your gyno and you have to get on your tummy for your "bunghole".
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    ^^^
    it was a bit embarrassing the first time, especially since at the place i go to, you have to remove your underwear and lie on your back and put your hands behind your knees to hold your legs up. the chick sensed i was a bit intimidated and shy the first time but she quickly put me at ease by telling me that she sees far, far worse every day, is used to waxing fat old ladies and men and that my hoohah was totally insignificant compared to the things she's seen.
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    I can answer that one! To the full brazilian treatment, you usually need to remove your underwear, and either spread them or get on all fours, depends on how the waxer is more comfortable working. So yeah, it's not something for extremely shy people, though there's no reason to be self-conscious. The waxer has seen it all before.

    I just came back from a bikini wax. I'm really comfortable with the girl who gives me waxes, we usually spend the whole time joking around-the laughter helps with the pain management too.
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    On all fours? Wow, I'd be way too shy to do that!

    You can get a heart shaped um...shaper thing


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    ^To clarify, I've never actually had to do it myself, but my best friend used to go to a waxer who favored that...er, position.
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    God, I'm laughing my ass off over these comments. We are a funny bunch.
    Oh, and I guess I'll never live down the 'licking place' comment, lol!

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    I think keep it trimmed is the norm now. By no means does it have to be bare.

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