So, i guess i am really naive about some things. I used to pride myself on having a bush that i had never waxed or shaved. I think i saw myself as being 'superior' for not having a bikini line (and i didn't, just a nice luxurious pelt).
A boyfriend i had 10 years ago offered to trim me and i went along with it. I had no idea at the time that this was something i was supposed to do on my own. I suppose i clued in, because i started regular maintenance, consisting of haircuts and plucking of the bikini line. I have never been waxed in any way, and i have never shaved myself completely bald.Now, after reading the "i'm so humiliated" thread which completely devolved into a pubic hair discussion, i am honestly looking for advice/opinions.
What is the bare (pun intended) standard i should maintain? Do i shave the whole outer labia up to the bunghole? How do you even do that? Should i have a small triangle, a landing strip, what? Is it really more sensitive in the "licking place" if you are bald? Is it possible that the men i have been with are wondering what is my problem? I have never had anyone else suggest changes, nor have i had anyone who didn't come back for more.
Looking for honest opinions and advice.
I know it's all my choice, but i sort of want to get a gander of what's the norm.