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Originally Posted by pacific breeze
The post was written to me, it was a natural assumption that it was about me. If I am wrong, I stand corrected, but january did say elsewhere very clearly that I -- not you or anyone else, but me -- "talked down," which means the same thing as condescending.
Apparently, Grimm, you won't rest, or let this thread rest, until I admit that everything I've ever said or done on GR in all its incarnations since the beginning and we were both here and actually friends way back when, is wrong, condescending, playing the victim, paranoid, or whatever other shit you can dream up. And I was still doing all this when I was standing up for you many times when others wanted to ban you for good.
OK. YOU WIN. I'M A HORRIBLE HUMAN BEING WHO HAS COMMITTED MANY CRIMES AGAINST GR. EVERYTHING THAT GRIMM SAYS ABOUT ME IS TRUE. EVEN IF IT IS ONLY HIS OPINION, IT IS STILL TRUE.
Satisfied? Now put me on ignore or leave me alone.
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No, I'm just tired of you constantly thinking everyone is out to get you, jumping on people, havingt them tell you they werent talking about you, and this crap cropping up over and over. Hell, you've done it to ME and I've had to say a number of times that no, i wasnt talking about you.. but you have some weird bat-sense like I was.
When it happens enough times, you identify the constant. Since lots of people have said "i wasnt talking about you", you'd think that you'd just maybe wait to see if they were actually doing so the next time before jumping on everyone out of nowhere.
Do you understand what I'm saying?
I'm not trying to pick a fight but I think I've identified several key points that keep reoccuring with you involved in them.
And it's not a "PB IS A HORRIBLE PERSON OMG LETS STONE HER" thing, its a "rethink your actions" thing.
That's all.
but this has all been said before, and yeah, the issue isnt going away. The same thing keeps happening, and there is one person and one constant through it all. If you eliminate all the other variables, whatever's left is either the lynchpin.
things i'm tired of:
1) having to tell this same person over and over "i wasnt talking about you"
2) having to watch other people tell the same person "i want talking about you"
3) Having to say or witness the phrase "it's not (all) about you"
4) Having to sit through this stuff time and time again because the previous 3 things keep having to be told to this person as a result of them jumping to conclusions.
5) threads devolving into said person inferring someone attacking them, attacking other people in response, and having those people get annoyed, pissed off and on and on.
It has to stop. No more "i know that wasnt directed at ME" crap, no more other people having to say, quite exhasperatingly "i wasnt talking about you" and no more thinking everyone is out to slander/libel you behind your back with vast conspiracies, pals, borg mentalities or other avenues for victimization where you're the outsider and everyone else who says something different is AGAINST you
my fingers are tired from all this cheesy psyche-101 ing. It's old. its been old for awhile. I dont want to have to witness this a few times a week because one person just will not control themselves enough to simply be patient enough NOT to react to things they're inferring from all sorts of different directions.
Just take shit at face value for a change. It's not hard.
and take THIS at face value too. You know that if i really wanted to tear a strip off you, i could quite easily. I'm trying NOT to do that. I actually dont WANT to do that. I've got fuzzy gloves on my claws. But like.. seriously.. stabby wants to come out and if this keeps going stabby is going to want blood!