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Originally Posted by Tiara
I may be completely wrong but I would thought that being molested by a man would put you off them completely rather than turn you towards them
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I'm sure to some extent it does, but more (in my experience) as a trust issue than a sex issue. My stepdad molested me and both my sisters and I have had HUGE trust issues most of my life. Although I know it was not that experience alone that led to that, it was a huge part.
Instead of turn me off to men, there were certain aspects of sex that I had to have control over...basically no forcing me to do things...had to be at my pace...that is the only thing sexually that it affected.
On the flip side, I can see the reason someone would turn to the same sex after abuse. They have been told by the abuser "this is love-this is how we show our love". Get in a child's mind, and you can fuck some thinking up-I know.