I second everything MrsDark said, except for the first-hand stuff obviously. In this lady's case I think the surgery was a completely reasonable choice, and I also know that not all women will experience muscle slackness quite this extreme. I don't think she should feel guilty at all though, she obviously worked hard for a long time to try to shift her tummy naturally. I can see how it would be very frustrating.
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