[Reptillycus]

Which son is this, I am confused, is this his blood son, or his adopted son...Don't know why this matters to me, but it popped up as a question in my head.
Don't think one should tape your relatives, unless it's for a domestic abuse case, or custody issue, and even then, I have reservations. What one says in the privacy of the living room or the bedroom is just that, private. I have heard many diverse racial slurs, from different directions, from many people, and the context is very important. Color of skin dictates what may be said and not said? Maybe...again, circumstance and context is important. Calling out the bad guys makes for a close neighborhood...