I have heard lesbian friends say that sexual molestation at a young age made them decide they were lesbian. Not sure I believe that, but it would be correct to say that the experience made them shy away from men and think that all men would hurt them...women are gentle and tender and never hurt you.
Is it possible this guy is just flat out gay and is ashamed? The only way to handle it is to blame someone else? I don't CHOOSE to love another man-that dirty priest made me do it...
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