C'mon, it ISN'T HER FAULT REMEMBER? You cannot help someone that doesn't want to be helped, and she clearly doesn't want to be at the moment. So, what is her family suppose to do? She is going to have to come to them, and tell them that she needs the help..but clearly she is still in denial, and it is not their duty to push her into getting help. It is hers, it is something she has to do herself, and not anything ANYONE else can ever do for her. I have zero tolerance for alocholics, drug users, since I have had PLENTY of family members who have abused both. Those people constantly hurt their family, and refused to get help, after a while, people like that do not necessarily deserve to be forgiven. There is only so much damage that she should be allowed to do to her family. If they shut her out, I don't blame them, HOW IS IT fair for them too be punished and hurt over and over by her?
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