I had some more time to read this in detail, and the first woman sounds extraordinarily bitter to me . She obviously made a bad personal choice, because she feels like her children ate her life, but I don't think this applies to everyone. And why did she get pregnant for a second time if she hated giving birth and breast-feeding so much? On the other hand she is sort of brutally honest and doesn't sugar-coat her situation, which should be appreciated too. However, she sounds a bit too cold and distant toward her own children, and it's not like she didn't have the choice.
The second one is like... tee heee...hurray, I can eat, eat, eat and play girly girl with my daughter.
