Without a doubt firmness is not even in question here, i am only referring to a firm 'big' girl and a firm 'skinny' girl. I just cant bring myself to prefer a kate winslet over a gisele. Im green with envy cuz my own body leans more towards kate. But my eye sees gisele's firm thin thighs and it makes me JEALOUS. I see kate and i think "aaah, sweet kate" not "oh i hate u bitch"
I cant help but still prefer this size:

Over this:
So i ask the question again, do u not think we all pretend to choose the larger ones cuz we identify with them more, not because our brains TRULY say "YES, the big one is hotter"