[southernbelle]

Talking of her first sexual relationship, she said: "I brought knives out and we had a night where we attacked each other. It was so primitive and it felt so honest. But then I had to deal with not telling my mother - and wearing bandages to high school."

For instance, there was a lot of speculation at the time that she and her brother, James Haven, were in an incestuous relationship.

Why? Because when she won her Golden Globe in 2000 for Girl, Interrupted, she actually made out with him backstage, her arms around his neck, her lips all over his. It was pretty creepy. When I tackled her, she simply asked with an arched eyebrow: "Do I look like the kind of woman who would have sex with her own brother?"

I answered: "Well, I don't know what that kind of woman looks like."

"Exactly," she countered. Then, as she drifted off, she looked over her shoulder and winked at me.

The thrill that she gets from violent/abusive sex is distubring, but what really pushes me over the edge is her relationship with her brother. The fact that she either WAS in an incestuous relationship with her brother or wants people to THINK that she was indicates that she's clearly mentally ill. I honestly worry for the safety of her children. She can pretend to be a saint all she wants, but I'll never believe that she's anything other than a bat-shit crazy, perverse attention whore.