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Originally Posted by StayYoung&Pretty
^I agree. The story said she used to feel pretty bad about herself and she was clearly unhappy and its true that confidence is very attractive. There's lots of beautiful flat chested women, they are happy and confident regardless and i think thats more noticeable than their chest. So maybe its ok to do something that will make you more confident, because i think low self esteem and a lack of confidence is really the worst thing you can have. People who have been there, and continue to have those feelings would know what I'm talking about.
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This is a good point, since I had my work done I developed a confidence because my body became symmetrical for the first time in my life, and I could buy clothing together instead of separate sizes all the time. I could forget about that and just be relaxed - that give one a lot of confidence. I think that's when I truly came into my own. That and taking shit off employers and ex-husband and being the boss of two little kids--that will all give you confidence too - flip off the employer, ditch the husband and keep the adorable kids-yep that works
I think there's a point in life where it all comes together and you don't give a shit anymore - who was it that posted recently she feels great now even though she doesn't look stereotypically good?