This is what I am saying..
I have a cousin who is gay. He exhibits no signs of being gay - there is absolutely no gay vibe about him. I only know because he trusted me with that information.
We are of strict, Italian, Roman Catholic descent. At family gatherings, he comes with a girl. He talks about marriage and wanting kids. He's your typical GUY. However, when he's not around his family and goes back to Toronto, he's the man he truly is.
Its sad in a way, but he doesn't make it out like that. Some people can't accept homosexuality. He continues to go to church and continues to pretend he's straight. All he wants is to be left alone in his own private life.
He doesn't have the paparazzi following him, trying to 'out' him... I cant even imagine how devastating that would be. If and when he wants to come out is when he should. If a gay man doesn't want to..no one should make him. He's not doing anyone any harm.
John Travolta obviously does not want to come out of that closet; no one should do it for him. Even if his religion is crackpot to us.. its not to him. That is what is important here. What he believes in, not what we believe in.
This is obviously just my opinion.