I liked the E! True Hollywood Story on Tori Spelling, and I like Tori Spelling.
I'm happy for her that she finally found her soulmate and true love in life.
I don't at all blame Tori for the breakup of McDermott's marriage. I think men have a free will, and they choose to leave or not. Chances are McDermott was unhappy with his marriage long before he met Tori - he's even stated as such I believe.
As for Tori's own marriage, she married the wrong guy. It happens to millions of people in this country and all over the world. I can't blame her more than I can blame anyone else (which is not really) for making a mistake.
Go Tori!