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Old July 5th, 2009, 08:25 AM   #30 (permalink)
WhateverLolaWants
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Yeah, that was an insensitive post, not someone I would want caring for my newborn. I think 12 lb newborns are just as cute as a 7 lb baby or a 3 lb baby. And if anything, I have seen premature babies and they are actually alien looking- don't see how they are so much cuter, if anything they are scary looking. My husband was a 3 lb baby and he even admits he was ugly as sin because he wasn't developed. I think the goal should be to have a healthy baby, not to have one that is tiny because they are so much cuter and easier to love.
My sister in law has had severe health problems all her life because she was born at 25 weeks gestation. As someone who has had to care for her in the past, I do not love her any less for her afflictions, but I get genuinely concerned at people cooing over the supposed superior cuteness of premies
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