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Old June 28th, 2009, 11:18 AM   #66 (permalink)
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The woman didn't respond for a reason, and I feel sorry for her way more than the daughter. If the daughter feels rejected, that's her own damn fault for pushing herself onto a woman that clearly wanted nothing to do with her.
I agree completely. It's my personal feeling that what the adopted child may want does not take prescedence over what the parents who placed them for adoption wants.

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so i guess the only way a birth mother can guarantee she will remain anonymous is to be in a place with a safe haven law and abandon her child at a fire station or hospital or something.
that sucks.
Apparently.
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