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Originally Posted by sluce
I also ask you to consider the fact that an agreement was made that will impact the adoptees life without their consent. The adoptive parents and birthparents may make a deal but the adoptee was not given a voice and they are the party most impacted. It as if you are saying that when a person is pregnant they can sign a contract with another adult stating that their child will have to marry the other person. The child has no say but would be expected to be bound by the agreement made by the adults before their birth. Would that be fair? Adoption is supposed to be based on the best interest of the child - not the adults.
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That's the fact of every birth. An agreement between the father & mother without consent of the child. Sluce, your passion is impressive and your goals are nobel, but your view is myopic and totally ignores the rights of the birth parents.