[sputnik]

so i guess the only way a birth mother can guarantee she will remain anonymous is to be in a place with a safe haven law and abandon her child at a fire station or hospital or something.
that sucks.

and it is nothing like agreeing to marry your child off when he is a minor. he/she is simply having information withheld. and really, that's just the way it goes when you're a minor or a child - adults make decisions that will affect you all the time. that's life.