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Originally Posted by McJag
ITA. The one that rocked them,bathed them,got up with ear aches & suffered over every hangnail-that is the true mother or father. Doesn't matter if that child was home made or store bought. Once you get your hands on that precious,he or she is all yours-right on the spot. For someone to go looking for their "real parents" is short sighted. I always wonder how the parents who raised that child feels.
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I agree.
I have to add that there is only one situation that I can understand and accept where an adoptee would want to seek their biological parents, and that is if the child is found to have a very unique disease or the sort, and they need to find the parents in order to find a cure or suitable donor. Basically, a life or death type situation.
Nothing else.