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Originally Posted by crumpet
The term 'real mother/father' really offends me. I don't like to hear adoptees refer to their bio dna donors that way. The people who actually raised you are your only parents, period. I also hate these 'Locator' reality shows that romanticize these reunions. It's laughable to me when someone comes running up to the bio mother they have never met in their 45 yrs on this earth crying and saying "I love you". That's a joke, thinking you love someone you don't even know. You love what they represent to you. I only hope that adoptees are repsectful towards their 'real' parents who raised them when they go about seeking these reunions.
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You make a very valid point crumpet.
I agree.