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Originally Posted by #1sanjayafan
I have NEVER gotten a gay vibe from him. None whatsoever, and I consider my "gaydar" to be pretty darn accurate since one of my best friends is a homosexual and I know how they act.
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I found this statement to be kind of offensive. Just because your best friend is gay doesn't mean you are an expert on how all gay people act. Not all gay men are effeminate, not all gay women are butch. They come in all shapes, sizes, and manners of acting, they are people and don't all act the same. Not all gay people will have the personality your gay friend has. A significant portion of my friends are gay, some of them are effeminate gay men, some are butch lesbians, and some could "fool" those that claim to have good gaydar.